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Why do people need people? Let's philosophize together!

There is such an expression: a person needs a person. What does it mean? Why do people need people? Can not you do without them? Let's consider all this in more detail.

People

They surround us everywhere: at the entrance, on the street, in the shop, at work / school, in hospitals, etc. So, the topic of today's article is: who are they, why can not they live without them and why does a person need people?

Probably, each of us has thought about at least once in our lives, and for what we actually live, what is the meaning of life, etc. People are our environment, we are accustomed to seeing similar ones around us, and yet sooner or later there is The question of why they (and therefore we) are needed. And the answer is this: we are social beings, so we can not be alone. Always near or near to us, someone yes is, whether it is a mother or a frequent neighbor on the landing. And this is normal, it's natural.

People need us for:

  • Communication;
  • Transactions (for example, in stores);
  • Making love (physiology is an important thing);
  • Mutual assistance;
  • For an incentive to become smarter, more interesting, more beautiful;
  • For a full life, in the end.

Of course, these are not all the options, but still the most common ones. Below are considered different branches of the types of communication with people.

Relations

Anyone who asks the question "why a loved one is needed," most likely either never fell in love for real, or has little experience with the opposite sex. Or, on the contrary, there is experience, but, unfortunately, negative.

The relationship between a man and a woman is one of the important aspects of life. Friends and family mean a lot, but they can not help feeling feelings, trembling and excitement before a date. Just as they can not replace kisses, sex and more. There are exceptions, but they can hardly be called a generally accepted norm.

A loved one is able to calm down when the nerves are at their limit, with one touch; To bring to naught any quarrel, striving to grow into a full-fledged scandal, with the help of sex or other methods; Make it clear to a person that he can be loved, and prove it every day ... You can continue for a long time. The important thing is that a loved one is necessary, and necessary.

friendship

Who can support in difficult times? Who can have a good time with? Who can be trusted with their secrets so as not to store them in a heavy load? Of course, you can contact a psychologist who will listen to you for your money and give advice, but that's not it.

Everyone needs friends. Whoever says anything about the love of solitude - in most cases this is a lie. More often than not, people love only periodic solitude. If they had to live for a month or two in the forest, in the wilderness, where there is not a single living soul, they would understand how they were mistaken about the dislike of people. At least minimal communication - it does not matter, it will be at work, on the Internet, with family members or casual passers-by everyone.

Friends provide a person not by casual conversations, but by sincere, cheerful, warm, close. What can not be talked with parents, a second half or a stranger, you can calmly discuss with a friend, because it is with these people that the topic for discussion can be absolutely anyone.

Knowledge

We are taught more or less by parents and educators in kindergartens, we are forced to study in schools, then we almost have to go to higher education through force, and only because we do not have to be ignorant. Of course, not always, but more often. Nevertheless, why people need knowledge, few can answer. The task of teachers is to educate. And some people really ask themselves: "Why?"

To begin with, without knowledge, a person will be uninteresting, boring and stupid. From early childhood, people get the minimum information: what is an airplane, how to properly eat a spoon and fork, how to determine time, how to count, write and much more. Now let's imagine a situation where a person does not know anything at all. Well, basic skills like the ability to walk, eat and visit the toilet we leave, but exclude all the knowledge that is taught to the boys at school. What then? Just imagine a planet inhabited by illiterate, dull, disorderly, lazy creatures. This is even worse than cave people, these are generally unknown creatures that can not do anything useful. Any planet inhabited by such beings is doomed. From parasites, as a rule, get rid of ...

People have to get knowledge. Someone will help to show themselves in a conversation from the best side, someone - to invent something new, someone - to fulfill the dream of all life. A person without knowledge is not a person, this animal, or even worse. This is a dead end. We need to use what we have, namely, intellect, reason.

A family

Friends and love are good, but there is another important component of the life of any person. A family. It is in the majority of people since childhood, and also after the final maturation. So why does a person need a family and what does it take place in our lives?

Let's go back to childhood. Everything that was not clear to the little ones, we asked our parents. They taught us everything and helped us become full members of society. Brothers and sisters became friends and saved from boredom in free days. Children from orphanages could not experience such happiness - most of them were abandoned as early as infancy, like a toy. Someone thought that the baby does not need a family, forgetting how he once was a child.

Family is a huge support, without it people grow up completely different. Not always angry, rude and heartless, but still different. Never forget about your family, your parents and other relatives. It is necessary to understand that if a serious trouble happens, everyone will not give a damn about you. All but parents. You need them always. The situation will be the same when you have your children (if they do not already exist). Without a family, a person will experience incredible loneliness, which will have to be felt too sharply closer to old age.

Society

So, with close people like friends, loved ones and relatives, we sorted it out. It's time to move to more generalized concepts. So, why does a person need society? Is it possible to manage only those whom you trust and with whom you communicate for a long time, and not to contact others in general? The answer is unequivocal: no!

Firstly, people do not always become friends or lovers for life, sometimes they have to part. Then something will affect the lack of practice of communication with others. At first glance, everything seems simple, but in fact, getting used to certain people, a person trusts them so much that they can discuss anything. With other, unfamiliar personalities, this will not work. The chances of not having topics for conversation, awkward pauses and fast partings are too great.

Secondly, 90% of professions are connected with people in one way or another, and people are a society. Whether a person wants it or not, he needs to be able to communicate with others.

Thirdly, it is society that can help to cope with problems. Sometimes people are so compassionate that they send money for surgery to an unfamiliar child. What would the mother do otherwise? I watched her child die? And so - the society helped her, the child survived, everyone is happy.

Fourthly, among the surrounding people, most often there are new friends and the second half.

A life

So we came to one of the most important moments. We have already more or less understood why a person needs people, friends, family, loved ones, etc. And all this is really interesting. However, it remains to understand why people need life.

The question can be called philosophical, affecting not just existence, but the meaning of it. The answer will not be long. You do not have to search for many answers, thinking about what it's all about, why we need families, friends, loved ones and just people. We were born just to live. And you need to enjoy life, because it is not known what awaits us in the future. No one has proved the existence of other dimensions, paradise and hell, the so-called after-life worlds ... Let's consider that life is given to simply live, enjoying every day, every moment.

Conclusion

That's all. Now you have at least an approximate idea of why a person needs people and other elements of life, including herself. It's another matter that each person has his own idea of certain things, and what one deems quite entertaining, the other will be called complete absurdity.

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