In our progressive century, when everything is known about sex almost from diapers, virginity for many seems something old-fashioned and unnecessary. And among teenagers the virgin will be considered more likely unpopular, especially against the background of more relaxed in dialogue with an opposite sex of girlfriends. But if you ask the girls about their "first time", then almost everyone will say that it was painful, unpleasant, not as cool as expected. What to do in this case? How to lose your virginity and not experience discomfort?
So, you decided to become an adult and start living a sex life. Think carefully if you are ready. Each person has his or her own psychological age. To feel happy, he needs to behave in accordance with this age. Therefore, before you lose your virginity, think about whether you are ready for this internally. Will not you make a mistake if you go on about the more developed girlfriends? Will not you just do it to be like everyone else? If at least one of these reasons flashes in your head, it's better to postpone this step: you will hardly get the joy of the first sex, but you'll spoil the impression forever.
Well, the very process of losing virginity also deserves a certain preparation. It's best if this event happens in a quiet romantic atmosphere, in your or his apartment, in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, because the right attitude is half the battle. In addition, always let your partner know that you are virgin, and ask him to be careful and attentive to you, because the pain from the rupture of the hymen is most often due to sudden movements. It will help to relax and tune in to the appropriate harmony together taken before this warm bath. Of course, remember the protection. Before you lose your virginity, be sure to touch on this topic with your young man. Even the first time you can get pregnant or get infected with any sexually transmitted disease. It's unlikely that you are striving for this.