Do you know what or who can be perfect?

Somehow this issue figured in the well-known program "100 to 1". He was asked on the street by ordinary people, and the TV show participants had to guess the answers received. Here are the six most popular answers to the question of what or who can be ideal: spouse, figure, marriage, man, couple, man. Within this article, we will not disclose all these concepts, but focus only on the latter. In our opinion, this is the most obvious answer. So, the ideal person, who is he?

Perfectionism

Perfectionism is the attitude of people overestimating their own lives. Once they asked themselves the question: "What or who can be ideal?" - and formed in their minds the image of a perfect person. For this reason, they can not accept their imperfections or forgive themselves mistakes in any kind of activity. They are unhappy with their own appearance and on a regular basis are looking for flaws in their lives. The inconsistency of the image of the perfect person causes them suffering.

What to do?

If you find in yourself the features of a perfectionist who thinks he knows what or who can be ideal, then just accept this fact. Admit to yourself: "Yes, I am this one and I want to fix it." Do not blame yourself for the mistakes. On the contrary, it is necessary to extract experience from them.

Learn, develop, try to love yourself as you are. Everything must be in harmony and balance. We advise you to become a nihilist. Surely you've heard the phrase "healthy pofigizm." Just do not go too far. Always think about maintaining a balance.

If we were asked the question: "What or who can be ideal?", We would answer it like this: "There is no perfection in this world". After all, it is imperfection of every person that makes him unique. If people were ideal, then the world would consist of biorobots. So look at life soberly, take your own personality and every day try to become a little better than yesterday!