Gifts: General Criteria, Restrictions, How to Give

Of course, everyone likes to receive gifts, and many others also to present. What to compare with sincere delight, joy, coloring the face in bright colors of pleasure. It's nice when a gift brings warm emotions when it noticed, guessed, struck. When he managed to give one, the right gift.

What is meant by the right gift? For each gifted, the correctness of the gift is individual. But all the presents have common criteria: the relevance and correspondence of the gift of the essence and the character of the celebration, the age of the birthday person, his status, interests, situation, professional achievements, etc.

Gift restrictions

You should be careful with expensive gifts. Of course, it's nice to receive an item that you can not afford to buy yourself, which is valuable only in value. At the same time, it should be remembered that the cost, high cost oblige. The culprit of the celebration will be awkward, he will feel obliged to give a reciprocal, no less valuable gift or to remain due. Expensive gifts are appropriate to give a wealthy, not limited financially to people and loved ones, very close relatives.

Not always acceptable and so are the so-called live gifts. Firstly, forcibly you will never be lovable, and you can not force everyone to love and accept a touching kitten or joyously spilling cannon trills. And the awe that covers at the sight of amusing hamsters may not be quite the same for others. Secondly, even the resigned parents of the happy Russian "Lindgren's toddler from Sweden" throwing up the puppy are unlikely to really be happy, and the animals are sensitive to the attitude. In general, what it will result in, do not guess. Thirdly, the house can be allergic, here explanations are superfluous. In a word, it is better to coordinate live gifts.

Another limitation is a characteristic gift, with a hint to a superstitious person. No joy will bring a figurine, a toy, a picture of a black cat, a set of knives or some other suggestive objects. No one will give any pleasant emotions to the gifted. And this is at best. It is worth considering when choosing a gift and other phobias, so as not to embarrass or not to frighten. The same with gifts - jokes and jokes. It's fresh, not ordinary, but the degree of joke should be acceptable acceptable.

Certainly, personal, intimate gifts are not appropriate. The exception is only a very close relationship, although in this case the gifts are not shown. Also, do not get carried away with gifts that are optimal for yourself: cosmetics, especially decorative, sometimes perfume, clothes. Alternatively, you can present a certificate, pay for the chosen item or give a kind of personal contract for a joint campaign for cosmetics, new clothes.

And, last, an unshakable rule. It is absolutely unacceptable to give gifts, to get rid of their own, stale and unsuitable, to give absolutely impersonal gifts. Present impersonal, useless, boring and uninteresting subjects.

To give a gift correctly is not less important than choosing the right one. When you receive the gift, you should stop, fix the moment, joyfully looking into your eyes and personally, sincerely addressing with warm congratulations and proper comments. No blur, negligence, delivery on the move or I put, then look. Undoubtedly, a bright, preferably multi-layered, joyfully crispy, package is required. This will return the childish impatience, joyful excitement and anticipation. And this is a kind of emotional gift. At the time of handing it is not necessary to hint at the contents in an apologetic tone. Gifts of a larger size, large or requiring installation, accommodation, it is better to present a few symbolic: hand a check, a certificate, keys, a toy copy.