What happens after a man realizes that he is in love

Even before a man realizes that he is in love, in his mind there are processes that affect behavior, gestures and facial expressions. He becomes different, others notice this, his friends begin to teasing him with good-naturedness, and passers-by turn around after him. In most cases, a person whose heart, expressed in an old-fashioned poetic language, "pierced by an arrow of the cupid," becomes kinder, he smiles more often, but sometimes he finds an inexplicable sadness.

Quite normal is the desire to take care of a woman who has become the object of this bright feeling, to fence her off from some unpleasant circumstances, or, at the very least, just to amuse, to laugh, or even to bring a smile. After the man understands that he is in love, all his attitude changes. He does not know what to do, but he understands that it is necessary to act. However, to discover their feelings before the moment when reciprocity will be established, many representatives of the stronger sex do not want, fearing a mocking "from the gate turn." So cowards make us doubt ...

But, as folk wisdom says, sewing in a sack can not be concealed. The look of a man in love speaks more than the love arias of all the brilliant operas, and surpasses in its expressiveness the play of any talented actor. It has everything: both hope and fear of irresponsibility, and adoration, and despair, and again hope. Only a blind and completely heartless woman will not understand that such-and-such (imyarek) has fallen in love with her to the ears. But in this case there will always be someone who will intelligibly explain this to her.

From the outside, it is often amusing to observe how a man realizes that he is in love. This in the movies and in novels describes instantly a flashing passion. So it happens in life, but it's not about lust or playing hormones, but about a serious and all-consuming feeling, but it requires reflection. The process is gradual, at first it seems that nothing special, just like a woman, that's all. Then comes the understanding, usually defined by the word "disappeared".

The hussar gestures of a man in love, expressed in unprecedented generosity even among those who used to be known as squawers, are explained by the desire to become indispensable. The desire to enter the life of a beloved woman is combined with the hospitably open doors of her own inner world. If there is something to show for them, it's fine, but one should also take into account the sad fact that not everyone is interested. Of course, one can give intelligent advice not to rush, but first to find out the lady's preferences, but who will listen to recommendations of a sober mind, when the heart trembles in her presence, and misses when she is not around!

Lovers need other advice, they want to determine how attractive they are to the object of their adoration. And without waiting for wise speeches from friends, relatives and acquaintances, they begin to carefully monitor their appearance, try very hard to shine with wit and erudition, in general, to stand out. Something that reminds of the conjugal games of peacocks, but what to do, this means that the representative of the male tribe should behave according to the laws of nature.

So, how does a man understand that he is in love for real, and not just keen on it? He feels it in his heart. If at the thought of a woman in the shower there is a warm wave of tenderness, then - yes.