The sexiest men in the world

There is a myth that the sexiest men are actors, athletes, famous musicians and other media personalities. Is it really so, and what is sexuality? What does it express - in steel muscles, the role of the hero-lover or, perhaps, in the intellect of a man? Let's search the answers together in our article.

What is sexuality?

There are many aspects to the definition of this concept. We will give the simplest: sexuality is the charm of the opposite sex, attraction of its representatives in an external manner, manners, behavior. This seduction is aimed at waking up one of the strongest instincts in a person - the instinct of procreation, or, more simply, of reproduction. We conclude that the sexiest men are those who are attracted physically and cause a sexual response (in other words, desire) in women.

Thousands of years have passed since the transformation of the animal into a human being, but the instinct, called Freud, was, as it was, still the main one. This, in principle, is understandable, because if the genus does not multiply, it dies out.

In the wild, females attract males (and vice versa) a very strong remedy - a special smell. This peculiar aroma maddens the males and makes the desire to continue the genus to the priority.

But what about people? Science has reached such progress that we too can attract people of the opposite sex with the help of the smell. These are artificial hormonal drugs - pheromones. They are obtained from substances released by animals during the "mating season". But they can incite intimate instincts by a maximum of 10-25%. And where to get the other 75?

Girls are much easier in this regard. Frank clothes with a lot of tricks (brassieres push-up that make the breast insanely attractive, neckline), scarlet lips and insanely attracting smell of perfume - this is a big part of the sexual image. Add here a little femininity and personal sympathy + intellect (which, however, is perfectly replaced by upbringing and knowledge of etiquette) - and the explosive mixture that battles the man on the spot is ready.

And how to be a man? Sexual body of a man is not always the key to success for women, and even to show off his opportunities, in comparison with the weaker sex, is still less. How then to be men and how to attract women? Consider the concept of sexuality in the male version.

Sexuality in men

We will outline the image of the ideal guy in terms of attractiveness:

• Character. Here everything is simple. A man should be a man. With a strong character, confident, persistent, charming and intelligent. But in no case should one confuse self-confidence with insolence, and perseverance with obsession.
• Appearance. The sexiest men should be well-groomed, moderately stylish, ideally - with the body in good physical shape.
• A common image. Unfortunately, in our time some kind of substitution of moral goods is material, some girls think that the man's security, expensive phone and status car make him insanely sexual. This is a mistaken opinion. Sexy here is not a young man, but his wallet. Male sexuality is not measured by the abundance of that, but some part of the attractiveness of the status of a man still contributes.
• Behavior. Yes, the behavior of a man is also a component of his attractiveness. We are not going to tell you how a man should behave, because all this is already described in the norms of etiquette. The main components of such behavior are respect and upbringing, moderation and observance of the banal rules: to open the door in front of a lady, helping to move a heavy piece of furniture or office equipment will make you a real man in the eyes of a woman.

Sexy men of the world - who are they?

Consider the first two top-five popular ratings.

British magazine "Hot World" (Heat World). The first place is traditionally occupied by the famous football player David Beckham; Second - the thirty-year-old actor Ryan Gosling; The third and fourth were occupied by handsome men Ryan Reynolds and Bradley Cooper; On the fifth Jake Gyllenhaal. It is worth noting that the sixth place here was taken by Robert Patisson, on the eighth he does not lose his position handsome Johnny Depp. As you can see, to understand what is male sexuality is much easier with the help of real examples.

The famous female edition of Glamor sees the sexiest men like that. The first place is the famous Mr. Fifty shades of gray - Jamie Dornan. The second - Biker and Sherlock Holmes Benedict Cumberbatch, the third - Tom Hiddleston, the fourth "Edward" Patisson, the fifth - the British actor Henry Cavill.

These very sexy men have one thing in common: they are unusual, their mediainess gives them a fleur inaccessible to a dream, an ideal. But this is not the main thing. Look into their eyes: what do you see? First, confidence. They are confident in themselves and their charisma, and from this they are quite unperturbed and calm. Is it possible for an actor or an athlete to be sure of his demand? No. A doctor or an engineer, a teacher or a taxi driver, a manager or a programmer - all of them can also be confident if they love their work and have achieved success in it. Conclusion we will not sound, let everyone do it himself.

Beauty = sexuality?

We smoothly approached the exterior. Is it the basis of sexuality? Beautiful sexy men are not uncommon, but also not uncommon beautiful, but completely unattractive personality. Therefore, the answer can not be unambiguous. There are many examples where a seemingly attractive person exposes himself with his inner world or behavior. Many beautiful men are known as narcissists and spend their lives in proud solitude, while the guys with a very ordinary appearance struggle with the excessive attention of the fans. Hence, appearance can be a component of sexuality, but it does not equal it. The sexiest men often have a completely ordinary appearance, let's remember the legendary Kazanov: by whom, and it's incredibly hard to call him handsome.

How to become sexy?

The first advice how to become a sexual man will be in simple truths.

• First, you need to be self-confident. It is unlikely that women will find an attractive man who stands, huddled in a corner, and is afraid to say a word.
• Secondly, well-groomed. The costume from the world's leading designers does not guarantee sexuality, but the jeans and the dirty shirt will not be added either. You need a golden mean. And the ability to wear clothes. Some people simply have the gift of combining the most common parts of the toilet so that they seem to be removed from the pret-a-porter dummies.
• Thirdly, natural charm and an adequate sense of humor are always a plus. As, actually, and intellect. If you recall the saying: "A man should be more beautiful than a monkey," then we add that he should be smarter too.

Which men are sexier, the woman decides. And intellect + reading, the ability to support conversation is not the worst ways to win her favor.

The enemies of male sexuality

There are real enemies that can kill male sexuality even in the bud. Let's call them:

• Inaccuracy.
• Coarseness.
• Lack of sense of humor or attempts to be seen as a wit with the help of small vulgar jokes.
• Diffidence.

With these rivals, male attractiveness has all chances to remain alone. Fortunately, they all are afraid of willpower and are easily removable with it.

Sexuality test

We bring to your attention a small test, with which you can determine the relative level of sexuality. The answer options are "yes" (3 points), "no" (1 point) and "possible" (2 points).

1. Are you always sensitive to your clothes?

2. Do you prefer to dress in the same style?

3. Are you confident in yourself?

4. Do you suffer from excessive modesty?

5. Do you practice your body, do you keep it toned?

6. Is it easy for you to talk to a girl you like?

7. Do you consider yourself charming?

8. Do you have a sense of humor?

9. Are you the soul of any company?

10. Do you think that ladies should take the first step, and you decide how to proceed?

11. Do you have bad habits that repel others around you?

12. Do you think that a man should provide the family?

Test results

Let's see the results.

From 35 to 25 points.

You have a fairly high level of sexuality. Your energetics are the key, and the fairer sex flies to you like moths. But it is worth thinking about: are not you spraying your energetics too much? Maybe it's worth saving it for your only one?

From 24 to 15 points.

You are quite sexy and charming. You do not have problems with the opposite sex. The only thing that can prevent you from getting acquainted is an instantly overwhelmed insecurity in yourself and your strengths. Forget the phrase "I'm the same as everyone, nothing special about me". Believe me, there is a girl that is looking for you, do not miss your and her chance for joint happiness.

14 and below the points.

You are an attractive average man / guy. Perhaps you are more attractive than many of your friends. Only trouble is that you do not know how to show yourself. Modesty is good quality if it does not grow into uncertainty and fixation on its shortcomings.

As you can see, the test for sexuality will not give you an absolute assessment of your sexuality, but to tell you what you are wrong in reducing your own attractiveness can be quite good.

conclusions

Sexy strong men look at us from TV screens and posters. For them women of all ages go mad. Unconfident guys are very easy to give up on themselves against the background of their beauty, strength, energy. But it is necessary to understand the main thing: the fair sex admires idols and stars. But next to each other they want to see a simple, nice guy. Becoming the most-most for your half is not so difficult: more confidence, willpower - and you will not be left alone.