How to excite a woman in bed?

Orgasm in the woman's head, and while there are problems and troubles, she will not reach the peak of pleasure, no matter how hard you try. Therefore, before proceeding to the practical part, it does not hurt to take care of the psychological and physical comfort. Relaxing bath or light massage will prepare for sexual intimacy of both of you. If necessary, discuss the issues of contraception beforehand so that she is not nervous about this.

Many men mistakenly believe that the universal answer to the question of how to excite a woman is hidden in the word "cunnilingus." Forced to disappoint you - this is far from the case. Firstly, every third lady is capable of experiencing clitoral orgasm. For the rest, it can be either vaginal or mixed. By the way, the latter is the most common.
Secondly, the clitoris is a sensitive area. One of your awkward movements - and the partner feels no longer pleasure, but pain. Therefore, we will tell you a secret, many women do not like cunnilingus. And it's not about constraint or your inability. Just such caresses do not give the desired effect. However, it is not forbidden to experiment and improve.

Many of the manuals "How to excite a woman" have to read that a long prelude is simply necessary. Say, excited and cool down the ladies much slower, so the preliminary caress for 15-20 minutes (at least) will allow you to bring the partner to the peak of pleasure.
I must say that this is nothing more than a common myth.

Sexual arousal is a delicate thing, and its mechanism has been little studied to this day. One can say with certainty - a woman's desire entirely depends on her mood. And sometimes long preludes may not be needed. Moreover, while you are your partner to excite, her desire will be lost permanently. Do not forget to follow her reactions. Determine the degree of excitation of a woman can be by her genitals. The clitoris swells, blood flows to it. Sexual lips also increase somewhat in size, and a clear lubricant is released from the vagina.

Well, to top it off, mistake number three. For some reason, it is common to think that women love with their ears and therefore, the more compliments you say to a partner in bed, the more she gets excited. In part this is true. A gentle whisper in the ear, accompanied by light kisses on the neck, can warm up the sexual desire to a certain degree. But be careful. After all, most of the representatives of the stronger sex say compliments can not even in a calm state. It is not even an hour to "blurt" anything without thinking, and get instead of the planned orgasm tears and hysteria. Better be limited to individual affectionate words, and long tirades save for another case.

After a theoretical digression, let us turn to the topic of our article - how to excite a woman. Of course, all of you have already heard that both girls and young people on the body have erogenous zones, the impact on which causes sexual desire. For a man, this is primarily the genitals and buttocks. A fine floor has a more subtle organization. The erogenous zones of the girl can be in the most unexpected places. There are ladies who are able to experience orgasm from just touching the soles of the feet or popliteal cavities.

Many like it when a man gently caresses his neck and neck. But the most win-win option is a "cat's place" - a site on the back between the shoulder blades. Virtually all women admit that such caresses give them an unthinkable pleasure.
Among the tips how to excite a woman, there are often recommendations how much and how to caress the breast. We regret to note that this is another typical male error. The caresses of the female breast excite rather the man himself. For the fair sex, this body has a very different purpose, and this area of the body is not particularly sensitive.

Note that all people are individual, and the question of how to excite a woman, no one better than herself will not answer. Adults should not be embarrassed to say "about it" in bed. Of course, over time, uniformity is boring to everyone, and the success of the sexual life of partners depends, in large part, on their desire to experiment and learn about each other.

And in conclusion of the conversation I would like to add that for any representative of the beautiful half of humanity sex is more than an orgasm. And if a man understands this, he will not need consultations of home-grown "kazans" about how to excite a wife or girlfriend. Tenderness, love and tact are the best aphrodisiacs.