Man Modeling the Events of His Life

One person strives to achieve something new, a better one: "I strive - and I do not break down on difficulties, I'm going forward." And the other has already been blown away, and sees his life as something terrible, and the future amazes him with his hopelessness: "I was broken - everything was so disgusting, I did not want anything else."

What does it depend on - fullness of life and bloatedness, absence of life? What the outside world gives is here in second place. Not matter is matter, but how it is reflected in the inner world.

Man is not only biology. He is not only an animal that reflects in his brain what is in nature, is guided by its patterns, struggles for his life, passes his biological path and dies.

He has built up his own, exclusive life for this animal. And this life is so far removed from biology that the return to it happens only at birth and death. And all the rest of her development is reflected in the brain not as such, but indirectly. Even diseases of the body - a biological phenomenon - are perceived in a special way - as a disaster, as a fear of existence, and, perhaps, as a relief, because they give the chance to relax and rest.

The man rose above the animal - he created a new life for himself over the life of DNA.

What structure of mental constructions is such a person's life. Everything is happy and successful, if you think that everything is fine. And everything is terrible, if despair is pumped into the inner world.

It's amazing - how different can different people see the same fact.

And it is even more surprising that one person at a time can have many differently directed descriptions of the same thing. And as a result, a large number of internal wars are formed. On the one hand, this seems good, on the other hand it seems disgusting. Thought rushes from one pole to the next, and stirs up opposite desires. And when they accumulate a lot, they acquire the power to determine the state, the mood of a person, and ultimately his destiny. Therefore it is very important to understand your true desire, and stick to it, nullifying all the opposite.

One of the reasons for the growth of chaos in the inner world is inadequate self-esteem: she likes to walk somewhere away from zero, either in the black or in the red.

When she walks in the black, it means that a person rises above others by artificially truncating the merits of others. When it is in the red, it is the other way around: a person considers others better than himself.

To exaggerate one's virtues by oppressing other people's positive qualities is just as bad as minimizing one's good by exaggerating the ideality of others. And the one and the other way to treat oneself grows out by incorrect judgments about what is happening. As a result, a person settles in a society filled with fantastic images of people. A real person treats him neutrally - and his image is incomprehensible for what he does not like. And maybe just jealous? Another real person exudes rejection - and his image gives good. The third real person sympathizes - and his image is dissatisfied with something.

It turns out that a person lives in a parallel world of his fantasies. He tries to solve his problems with illusions, tries to improve his relations with others. He is fighting for his own happiness. But in reality, nothing changes for the better from this, everything only comes into even greater disharmony. Man does not understand anything. He is very hurt because of unjust attacks. He badly needs someone else's support. Regardless of whether he considers himself better or worse than others, he becomes very weak and dependent. Others become the axis of rotation of his life. This means that they are given a victory, but for themselves there is a defeat. In the open, illusory helpers and defenders, the soul freely penetrates another's minus and begins to grow there geometrically.

Desperate to establish their lives, a person resorts to the options of salvation offered by society. It is very convenient to use religion. Faith unites around itself a mass of people who become one. A person feels surrounded on all sides - he is comfortable. But such a position deprives him of independence. You can only say what you say. You can not say your dissenting opinions aloud, because believers are immediately expelled from their society. One of two things: either the man is meek, like a lamb, and completely loses his personality, or he is deprived of a sense of security.

Staying without support and feel good at this can only be a strong person. He makes his faith in himself and his responsibility for what happens to him as the axis of his life.

Power can not settle in chaos. She likes to divide everything that happens into parts and strictly adhere to the perception of what is in reality.

Strength grows on victories: the more they were in the past, the more confident the person feels today. But if in memory there is a lot of information about lesions, then a person is doomed to be weak.

Information about past lesions is not at all passive, it actively acts through behavioral programs. Man is ruled by them, although he does not know about it. So much the worse for him: he involuntarily creates similarities of his unfinished situations, prolonging his pain for an infinitely long time.

The last tragic situation must end with a victory - then it will cease to be a weakness and become a force. To do this, you need to work on yourself: to realize that the unfinished situation is stored in memory, to make a decision to get rid of the burden of past pain, register your habitual non-adaptive behavior and correct it.

A person can be strong and weak - depending on what he does with himself. In his will make his life prosperous or full of misfortunes.