Life Online

For schoolchildren and young people, social networks are clearly not to "be in touch". Given that they "hang" on the phone for hours, discussing the most stupid topics. Most young people sit out their "precious" time online to watch a video, listen to music and ... drum roll ... watch out for your mate. Repeatedly you have to watch how girls entering your account do the following.

First, carefully look through the photos, looking for "provocative material" there. Secondly, they read the "wall", where they try to find in any phrase "the subtext of treason."

Thirdly, if the number of people in the "Friends" column has changed, begin to look through the list, first to the end, even though the figure "overstrains" for 200. The most surprising is that during the search you start to be amazed that "she" remembers everyone His past 199 "friends."

If the "new friend" is a girl, then the story develops in several directions. This can be "interrogation with addiction", an attempt to hack into an account, in rare cases the girl simply asks "Who is this?", But the most incredible situation is no reaction, accompanied by the thought "Well, there was, and so on?".

It seems like you read, and everything seems stupid and funny, but out of 10 of my girlfriends 8 "work" under this scheme. We can say that the social network forms certain patterns of reaction and behavior. However, after this, there may be distrust, deterioration, or even collapse of the relationship. It's sad, but true.

For older people, the social network is more a place for communication, for some it is support for communication with business partners and friends-classmates, and some play in "Farm Frenzy", in order to relax. And how unfortunate, but some people use it to "have fun" with young people - remember youth. However, the main skate of the network remains that you can create your ideal image, both in character and on the avatar, using different "techniques" of Photoshop. And by creating yourself, you can create a "communication style" and follow it. Some will now begin to deny this, but let me throw a stone at someone who is much easier to say "unpleasant" thing or news in person, rather than tune it into a message. Of course, there are people who do not care how to present the news, but in most cases it's easier to write than to say.

Having created an ideal self, we no longer want to return to the real world. After all, in the network, even Katya Pushkareva can be Miss Universe. And our dear friend Laziness periodically makes itself felt. After all, before, people, if they agreed to meet, they met, and today - laziness. And why, if you can "talk" on the net. We meet only when strongly "press". And so in social networks there is almost everything for entertainment: music, books, communication, movies, gifts (!!!), etc. There you can even get married and get married. Speaking of this, one can not help recalling the anecdote: "He: And I gave you a gift =). She: You would throw me a movie on the" wall "and say that I took it to the cinema." And of course, it is important, in particular for teenagers, that through the statuses one can share his universal sorrow, what kind of he or she is "his" or how the world is not fair. Let everyone know and feel sorry for me.

We are mired in the world of social networks, and we do not want to leave it, or maybe not, with such and such a real world. The only thing that causes vomiting is the transformation of the senses of the real into virtual ones. For us, it's much more convenient to write "I'm sick" in the message, than to say live. At what the most amusing, that at this moment we can sit in trainings and sip gulls with buns.

No matter how sad this whole situation was, everyone decides how to live. However, advice for the future - do not turn into a vegetable, go out into the street, because sitting at the computer pants, you lose the opportunity to become a living person.