Is the girl pregnant - a gift or a punishment?

Pregnancy. Many young couples in love are very much frightened when they learn about its offensive, and some people consider it to be a gift from heaven, God. Fear of pregnancy is natural, especially if the partners have not reached adulthood. Agree, if a girl is pregnant at the age of 13-15 years - this is contrary to both the moral standards by which modern society lives, and the natural physiological maturation of the body. But if the girl is pregnant at a minor age, there are two ways out. Or abortion, after which there may be criminal responsibility for seducing minors, or family life and the birth of a child.

Very often in the boundless sea of Internet pages one can stumble upon the question: "my girl is pregnant, what to do, how to act properly." There is no unequivocal answer to this question, since everything depends on the circumstances, the material wealth of the family, the state of health of the young mother, and others. First you need to understand yourself, and are you ready to become parents? Can you bear the whole burden of responsibility that will fall on your still fragile shoulders after the birth of the child? In any case, you and your pregnant girl, what to do next, you must determine together.

After you can come to one common opinion (either birth and wedding, or abortion), it is necessary to talk very seriously with your parents about the fact that your girl is pregnant, having shone them at the same time about her plans for the future. Undoubtedly, most of the parents support their sons in this, as the children, despite the fact that they were not planned, are the flowers of life. Further, having collected courage and having bought a ring and a bouquet of beautiful flowers, leave with parents (presence of the father necessarily) in the house to the future spouse. Explain the whole situation to the family of the pregnant girl and ask her beloved for her hand and heart, in case of a positive answer from her side and the approval of her parents - run to prepare for the wedding, as well as to consult a gynecologist who will hold the first ultrasound.

But, unfortunately, as statistics show, many young couples, fearing anger and anger of parents, resort to abortions, completely not realizing the consequences of this intervention in the body of a young woman. After the couple learns that the girl is pregnant, they are looking for ways to get rid of the newly born fetus.

A well-known fact is that abortion by a minor without the permission of the parents is strictly prohibited. Therefore, inexperienced and frightened couple rush to the pages of the World Wide Web in search of "illegal" abortion and, unfortunately, find. Charlatans, posing as experienced and qualified doctors, extorting quite large sums of money from adolescents, offer their services. For an abortion, both sanitary conditions and certain skills are necessary, since the future of a pregnant girl, her health and even her life depends on the availability of these conditions.

We strongly recommend that if your girl is in an "interesting" position - think and analyze what the consequences of abortion in unsanitary conditions may be from a person who does not even have basic medical knowledge, which will negatively affect the health of your loved one. Try to talk with your parents, because "the devil is not so terrible as he is painted." The maximum that they can do is to scold you, scream, threaten to part with the girl, but eventually, when they cool down and begin to evaluate the event objectively, their opinion may change radically and they will become the happiest grandparents in the world.