Disagreements often lead to disputes between couples. Is there a way to not quarrel at all? Probably not. All couples in love from time to time begin to find out the relationship, but we want to give you advice on how to catch up after a quarrel, even if it was very serious.
1. Count up to 10
2. Create a special "stop signal" for two
When a quarrel with your partner approaches the tipping point, it is very important to stop all "fighting" using the secret signal that you have come up with together. It can be a gesture, for example, or a funny word. So you can show your partner that he came very close to the threshold of your patience.
3. Do not always try to be right.
4. Some problems are not worth your quarrels
5. Embrace your partner
6. Do something "impossible"
7. Go to bed
8. Use humor
Think of a joke! This is a great way to relieve tension. But do not try to be ironic or cruel to a partner, just use an innocent gesture or a funny word. It always helps.
9. Realize what caused your dissatisfaction
In a quarrel, there are always two people who have different points of view. While you breathe deeply for 10 seconds (following our first rule), think about what exactly makes you angry and causes discomfort. Do not be afraid to take responsibility!
10. Take care of the pleasure
Your relationship with a partner is always influenced by the environment in which you live. Negative atmosphere can easily turn disagreement into a big quarrel. For example, when you are hungry or there are many noisy people around you, this will prevent you from quietly discussing the problem, as a result of which the tension between you and the partner will increase. Try to take care of the "pleasure dose", which will help not only you, but also your partner, for example, prepare a delicious drink. Thus, you will show the partner that now is not the time to quarrel, which means that you can have dinner and relax.