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Couples do not want to be condemned for this: 9 things

Condemning people everywhere. They do not spare anybody. Nevertheless, their favorite topic of discussion is couples. Read on to learn about 9 things for which any couple does not want to hear reproaches.

1. For the fact that they call each other nicknames

There is nothing surprising in that from the side all these "bunnies" and "seals" seem cloying and unnatural. But calling each other nice and sweet names is important for lovers, because it satisfies the emotional needs of the couple. In fact, hormones for this in the answer more than you might think.

Another reason why we so want to be gentle with a loved one, as with a child, is that it forms the same connection between partners as between mother and baby when she hugs him. This, as it were, revives the purely childhood feelings from the point of view of biochemical changes occurring in the body. And in any case, is not it a private matter for a couple to call each other like this, and not otherwise?

2. For the fact that they are of different races

People see an interracial couple and start asking them questions like "Is there any difference in bed?" And "Have you thought about how your children will look like?". If you still perceive interracial couples as something strange and surprising, do not even dare to call yourself a tolerant person. Why are you so worried about what happens in their bed? Finally, the time has come for people, choosing a partner of another race, not to face the daily "oh-my-you-you-saw-it" on the streets.

3. For the fact that they are coming together

Again, you think that you are a progressive and advanced person, but if you have a taboo on civil marriage, you are mistaken. Think for yourself, what's more logical - to meet with a complete stranger and get to know each other or to come together with a complete stranger, but after you are married? The world is moving forward, no one is embarrassed by sex before the wedding, but why then living together is strange? If you prefer to judge people in pairs for what they come in, stop right now. You can not change your opinion for your life, but you definitely should not impose it on others.

4. For the fact that they together pick up the hotel, where to stay

And what's so surprising? They are a couple, and they need their common room. But for some reason, if they are not married, the managers of some hotels force them to pass through an endless series of questions to simply book a room. But the very minimum of respect that can be given to a couple is not to ask them for confirmation of their relationship. And why? The certificate of marriage does not mean anything.

Striking fact, but in Indian hotels can not book a room for an unmarried couple (if it's a guy and a girl). This is not only ridiculous, but also proves how in the name of culture people cross the border to be traditional / be stereotyped.

5. Because they had other relationships in the past

Some people (most likely, those who are experiencing the stage of a mid-life crisis) seem to live only by being closely monitored by strangers. Their forever oblique and squinting eyes betray them.

A common opinion: the guy who leads a new girl every night is macho, and the girl is immediately labeled "easily accessible". With such a level of hypocrisy on the part of society, it's amazing how couples generally survive. Remember only one thing: gossip is bad for everyone.

6. For dealing with someone who is older

Okay, people have age differences. What from that? Was it once the criterion, if there is a mutual agreement in the relationship? Two adults decided that they want to spend time together (temporarily or permanently) and they are both old enough to be able to count. Especially, how does this difference relate to anyone other than themselves? These social and family stereotypes are amazing, in the bad sense of the word. The only good news is that it does not occur to sensible people to condemn others, especially for such ridiculous reasons.

7. For the fact that their career is more important than weddings

In most cases, the word "pair" stands in the associative row near the word "marriage". And this is the root of the condemning installations. We have reached the point that couples have to listen to reproaches for the fact that a career for them is more important than a wedding. For some reason, people think that the ideal couple is one that necessarily depends on each other, even if it's excessive. At the same time, in reality, the opposite is true: giving each other personal space is very important, and successfully combining professional and personal life - sounds much better than any parasitic ideals. Attachment will not make a couple happier, especially if they both do not want it and both are so happy.

8. For the fact that they have friends of the opposite sex

Attention, important information! A male friend and a boyfriend boyfriend are different concepts. Nevertheless, there is a typical category of people that continues to equate them to each other. But, as they say, if the female friendship does not exist, and the friendship between the girl and the guy does not exist either, with whom to be friends with women? A very simple answer: with those with whom they want to be friends, regardless of their gender.

Friendship is another type of relationship, not to mention the fact that people are not animals and, with a constant partner, do not look at all members of the opposite sex as a potential husband / wife. And if you condemn couples for the fact that each of them is friends with someone of the opposite sex, would you say that you are not able to control yourself and perceive a person of the opposite sex as a person, and not as a sexual object? Because it would be very kind of you to let people call some part of your life "personal."

9. Because they are open to relationships through social networks

Do not you want to have relationships in social networks? Well done, do not have. But does this mean that other people for this reason should not have them too? If everything suits them - it's good for a couple. And for the whole world, which goes along with Facebook and Zuckerberg ahead, too.

Familiarity through social networks or relations at a distance is suitable for someone, but somebody does not, but this is already in our world, and therefore there should be no condemnation. Remember the old wisdom: do not judge, so you will not be judged. Very good advice.

With what of their above-mentioned claims did you personally come across? Or, perhaps, you have something to add to this list? Did you have a sin to express yourself to someone like this? Write your stories and opinions in the comments!

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