Can a guy and a girl be unequal in a relationship?

Well, when the relationship between a guy and a girl can be called equal. Each side loves the other and respects as a person. Of course, love is equally impossible. After all, always one side in the relationship loves more, and the second just bathes in the rays of this love. However, it is important that these roles at least occasionally change. Being loved all the time and not feeling the same feelings - boring, and all the time to love and not see the answer - it hurts.

Fortunately, nature itself took care that the balance was observed. Suppose a guy and a girl meet a year, and all this time a guy loved his soul mate more, spoiled her and indulged in many things. At one point the girl will get tired of this and will be prone to a break, although the relationship from the side will seem ideal. If at this point the guy shows character and takes a tough position, at least for a while, the girl's feelings will wake up, and the couple will have a good chance to stay together for many more years. If the guy does not show a character - a break is inevitable.

Thus, usually the relationship in which a guy and a girl are not equal long do not exist. However, there are several not quite ordinary situations in which such relationships can exist long enough, causing mental anguish of one of the parties, and sometimes both.

Let's start with the most common example in our day - the friendship of a guy and a girl. For some reason, in the role of the party, who suffers in this situation, usually turns out to be a guy. Girls, of course, may object that it is quite common to be friends with guys, however, in my deep conviction, this is not so. Nowadays, guys have become too humble and timid. To admit to the girl in love it is heavy, and what to do, if it would be desirable to be near to her? Of course, become her friend!

Usually the friendship between a guy and a girl begins when the guy wants to get his lover in a not quite logical way - to become her friend. The girl, usually, do not mind. It's so nice that they look after you and do not demand anything in return! So can last for years, until finally the guy gets out of the sink and does not admit to love. For a girl, it will be a real shock, and the relationship at this point is falling.

The word "relationship" here is suitable as well as possible, because there is everything: love, care, attention, pain ... The boy and the girl, however, are in such unequal conditions that the matter of kisses and other intimations simply does not reach. Interestingly, is it possible the opposite situation is possible? Personally, I do not know such examples. Our society has raised timid and insecure men, and this is the root of the problem.

But girls are not immune from falling into an unequal relationship. It's about a situation where a rich guy and a poor girl meet. With rare exceptions, the main role in such relations is played not by love, but with money. The social abyss has an extremely negative impact on the equality of partners. Even if the guy does not give any kind, the girl will still feel that her status is lower. After all, a guy with his money can easily find her a replacement, but the girl is unlikely to find a rich gentleman again.

It is this psychology that motivates girls who aspire to get as much from their partner as possible before it's too late. The guy at the same time begins to feel that they love not his, but his money. In general, such relationships are doomed to failure.

The cases described above are similar, because human fear is in them. It's fear that pushes people to unequal, and therefore unhappy relationships. The guy and the girl should not be afraid of their feelings and boldly express them. This will help quickly get rid of an unsuitable partner and, finally, find a person with whom you can live in complete harmony for the rest of your life.