A break up

The love story of each pair has its own. Sometimes it is more difficult to leave and put an end to the relationship than to take the first steps to each other. It depends on the nature of the person, and on a variety of external factors. Some experience a rupture of relations silently, hurling insult deeply in the soul. Others talk about their experiences to others. In any case, few people manage to leave painlessly.

It is very rare that both sides are ready to disperse and live further each with their own lives. As a rule, in this situation there is one who throws and one who is thrown. The hardest of all, of course, is the last. Overcome the severance of relations is difficult. But do not forget the well-known saying: "Time heals." A month or two will pass, and the pain will subside. All bad things will remain in the past. The main thing is to overcome the critical moment and not to close oneself.

In order for experiences not to develop into a nervous breakdown or something more serious, one should not keep them to themselves. You can not hide from your loved ones your tears. Who, if not they, can support, console and listen.

Do not forget about how different is the male and female psychology. Relationships can be most remarkable. But, nevertheless, the same situation man and woman perceive in different ways. Representatives of the strong half of humanity, as a rule, do not like to find out the relationship and if they leave, then quickly and without further ado. At the same time, the woman is insulted, doubted, angry and guilty.

In order to survive the rupture of relations as quickly as possible, it is necessary to get rid of all negative emotions. The hardest thing is to stop blaming yourself or your former lover. It is very important to understand the reasons for what happened and try to accept them. This will help to reconcile with the inevitable and start a new life.

Unfortunately, many do not seek to find reasons and in some way forget relationships. Constant thoughts about the former man will cause pain, and it will be very difficult to start a new relationship. All stages of a relationship with a new person will be overshadowed by the past.

There are several proven ways to help distract from problems. For starters, you can remember that once you had a hobby or just a favorite pastime. It will be very useful to meet old friends. Perhaps someone you have not seen for a long time. Remember the funny stories from the past. This will help to look at the situation differently. If your friends do not know about your unsuccessful novel, then you easily avoid conversations and sympathetic views that you absolutely do not need.

If there is no hope for friends, the best option is work. Having plunged headlong into everyday affairs, you for sure though for a while will forget about the unfulfilled personal life.

The change in the situation, even if it affects only the apartment, will do good. Make repairs, rearrange furniture, add more color to the interior.

Having successfully survived the rupture of relations, do not forget some rules. Even if you have a new man and you are confident in your feelings, try to avoid meetings and long conversations with a former lover. A sweet and utterly innocent communication can stir up emotions that seemed to be long forgotten. This will not bring anything good, so in such situations it is better not to get.

New relationships, especially if they are sincere, can heal any wounds and make you forget everything. However, often girls involuntarily begin to compare their men (the former and the present), beginning with the manner of dressing up to the intimate life. Probably, this is due to the fear of repeating the error. Nevertheless, if this is repeated for a sufficiently long time, it is worth considering whether you are ready for a new relationship or still can not forget the old ones.

Always remember that there is no hopeless situation, and even the blackest band ends sooner or later.