These 12 things are worse than treachery

Treason is certainly one of the fastest ways to destroy relationships, but there are many other unpleasant things that destroy even the most lasting and lasting ties. Sometimes they look quite harmless, but eventually lead to negative consequences, even more serious than treachery.

1. Falsehood and concealment of facts from one's partner

Even if you do this out of love or to protect the feelings of your partner, a variety of subterfuges and petty lies will eventually lead to serious consequences. You should be able to tell your partner almost everything. If you are hiding something, because you think that this will offend the feelings of your half, then, probably, this should not have been done at all.

2. Lack of demonstration of one's feelings

This can manifest itself in different ways, starting from serious and profound questions to each other and ending with support under any circumstances and in any situations. If this is not, then every person begins to have doubts about the seriousness of the partner's intentions.

3. Hiding dissatisfaction or claims

If you are dissatisfied with something or you do not like something, talk about it. If you keep negative emotions in yourself all the time, one day they will still break out and just kill your relationship in the most terrible way.

4. Lack of communication

This does not mean that you have to write a million text messages every day. The point is that you can tell each other about your problems and share something really important.

5. To be stubborn and principled

If you really love someone, you are always ready to compromise. If it does not, then you show your partner that his wishes and needs are not so important to you. Serious relations can not be built without sometimes making concessions and seeking a compromise.

6. Disputes over routine chores and household chores

Of course, sometimes there may be disputes between partners about whose turn it is to take out garbage or wash dishes, but if this happens constantly and with great scope, it can lead to serious negative consequences.

7. Condemnation

Talking with a partner from the top down is just another way to show yourself more successful and smart, which will make an imbalance in the relationship. This negatively affects the self-esteem of a person and slowly but surely destroys the relationship. Even after the relationship ends, the partner still feels insulted and depressed.

8. Maintaining relationships for convenience

It does not matter what is the reason: parents who you do not want to disappoint, bought tickets for a concert that will take place in six months, or something else. This will only exacerbate the problem.

9. Manipulation

It's hard to see, so partners often do not notice if they are manipulating each other or playing the role of a puppet themselves. Such an attitude forces a person to lose himself and act against his will and convictions.

10. Jealousy

Even without actual betrayal, persistent suspicions have a very negative effect on relationships.

11. Creating a false own image at the beginning of a relationship

It can even manifest itself in small things, such as whether you like to watch horror movies or what kind of ice cream you prefer. It is better to be honest from the very beginning, which will allow building a lasting relationship.

12. Maintaining relationships only because you have become dependent on each other

If you stay together just because you do not want to be alone, then nothing will come of it. If there is no chemistry and feelings, then there is no sense in continuing this relationship.