How to part with a loved one and maintain a sense of dignity

Human life is full of surprises that somehow guide us through the winding roads of fate. Parents and friends, colleagues at work, neighbors or just acquaintances, communicating with us, form our attitude towards them. Communication can raise or spoil the mood, induce to some action, whether it be good or bad deeds. Others can influence us, forcing us to change our opinion about something, and sometimes completely forget about what we ourselves want and what we aspired to initially. We tend to listen to the advice of loved ones, respect their opinions, sometimes losing their own ...

Opening the soul, do not always think about the consequences. Perhaps the biggest influence on us is the one we love with all our heart. When you fall in love, you begin to observe in yourself some inexplicable changes: you start to love the food your beloved is eating, even if you could not look at these dishes before. You start gradually forgetting about what you like most, listening to his advice when he asks you to change your wardrobe or change your hair. Worse, you make fun of yourself to lose weight if he suddenly hinted that everything is not right with your figure. Here it is - falling in love ... Waiting for him to meet, preparing dinner for him, trying to create the most pleasant atmosphere for the two of you. You begin to feel that here it is - the ideal of a man, that he is the strongest, the most beautiful, intelligent and native. He will always protect you and take care that you feel good with him. But some time passes, and the whole tale suddenly collapses.

Parting. The reason for it can be anything - his treason or yours. Or maybe he just stopped loving you and has no interest in you, like a woman. It happens that the warmth of the relationship is extinguished by the fact that he began to work more and has no opportunity to spend more time with you. In such cases, the work slowly but surely replaces you from the heart of the chosen one.

How to part with a loved one? This is a complicated question. Independently with this task not everyone will cope, but it's worth trying, because you need to live on.

Much depends on a person's personal qualities, on his honesty, masculinity, a sense of responsibility for the one whom he "tamed." Not every man can part with a woman so that later she does not want to put her hands on herself. In most cases, parting with a loved one does not end in a friendly relationship, but rather generates two angry enemies. This is how stupid people behave, who can not reason with their feelings of resentment. Do not descend to their level, but be smarter. How to part with a loved one in a civilized way? This task is difficult, and not every woman wants to solve it at all, because it's much easier to be offended. The situation exhausts the soul, squeezes out of you all life forces, but this does not mean that you should blindly expose yourself to such tortures.

Of course, it's difficult to recover when someone who you lived and breathed left you, who was your ideal, the meaning of life. And here you are sitting alone and crying, not knowing what to do with this clothes that you put on for him, you look in the mirror and hate this hairdo, and generally the changes in appearance that you went all for the sake of your beloved. I want to destroy, destroy, throw away everything that reminds me of this segment of life, which has brought you so much spiritual anguish.

How to part with a loved one and experience the minimum pain? Work and a hobby will help best. First of all, you need to pull yourself together and calm down for at least a couple of minutes. Think - why were all these sacrifices for him? Why did you need to change something in yourself? Most likely, he simply did not like, once tried to fashion from you something like a favorite toy. Soul, of course, tears off resentment and anger, and maybe you suffer from a sense of guilt in front of him. In any case - all this energy, all these feelings need to be directed in the right direction - then you will most easily go through an unpleasant parting.

Remember that you love to eat, get your favorite dress from the closet, get yourself straightened and go out with friends in a cafe! Slightly divorced - and already easier. Try to plunge your head into the work - it helps a lot. Remember that you are a living person, having your own tastes, hobbies, after all - your own "I". Burned - it happens. Do not build yourself a victim for a long time. I cried - and stopped. Lying in bed and crying in the pillow, you will experience the separation for quite some time. Why do you need this? It's a pity ... It's a pity for yourself and the time spent for a person. It's a pity that there are deceived hopes and unjustified expectations. But this is not the end of the world! Life is full of surprises. The trouble has already occurred. So, we should expect improvements, because our life is a string of contrasting bands.

If you have good friends - they will certainly help to spend time actively, away from annoying thoughts. Perhaps one of them has already experienced your situation and can give advice on how to part with a loved one and not lose the desire to live.

Stop being sorry and smile. Everything will happen, you are a woman, and women are known to be strong, intelligent and cunning, which is not always noticeable under our appearance. Outwit the current situation. Rejoice in life, build plans and strive to realize your dreams! Let your man do not think that he can
Sculpt all you want from him, do not consider yourself your idol, for which you are ready to endure any humiliation. Will ask for back - decide for yourself, is it worth it again to fall into this pool. If you really want, then the question of how to survive the parting with a beloved man, will soon cease to excite you, and even a man is unlikely to once again want to call loved. We must be strong, do not succumb to depression and do not cry. Nothing is impossible. We'll survive the parting, whatever it takes!