How to choose a pot for boys and accustom them to him

When the child grows up, the parents tend to accustom their child to the pot as soon as possible. Fundamentally important in this matter is the choice of the moment when the baby physically and psychologically "ripens" for this. All children are different, that's why they begin to walk on the pot at different ages - some do it already in a year and a half, and others - much later. One should always remember that in the early schooling of the pot, there is no sense, since it will only take time and strength of the parents, but in fact, it is more likely that it will be a guessing of a good moment than real training. Parents should allow the child to learn to listen to their desires and urges on their own. Boys, as a rule, in this respect a little behind the girls.

Very important is the purchase of a pot. Children's pot for the boy should be comfortable, durable, suitable for growth, and, of course, pleasing the eye of his small owner. After all, this is a very personal subject, which the kid perceives as his property.

The pot for boys has some specifics. The diameter of its opening should not be too small, some space is needed so that the child can handle the trickle down to the pot (this will also be a small preparation for writing standing). The color of the pot for boys is better to choose traditionally "male" - blue, you can yellow or green, but certainly not pink.

The choice of pots for today is simply huge - a variety of forms, in the form of machines and fairy-tale heroes, musical (play music when they get liquid). A pot for boys is better to choose more traditional, still it is not a toy, and the attitude to it should be quite serious.

First, you can try to drop the child on the pot in clothes, and only when the baby, sitting, feel confident, you need to offer him to take off his panties and sit down naked booty. If the child protests, then there is no need to persuade, as this only leads to even greater resistance and can for a long time "turn away" the baby from the pot.

Standing boy should be offered to write only after he learns to do it sitting. Without an example in this case can not do, such an example can be a dad or an older brother. But it is not necessary to move quickly to such actions, if it is convenient for a child to write while sitting, this is quite normal. When the child wants to go on the need in the street, then he can be suggested to aim at a flower or pebble. A pot for boys, who learned to cope with need "in an adult way," will only be needed for "big things".

There is an opinion that the more a child will spend time without a diaper, the faster he will start asking for a pot. This is not a fact. But the fact is that the enuresis of older children is not related to wearing diapers, whatever the grandmothers - opponents of modern diapers. Therefore, every parent should be guided not only by the desire to put the baby on the pot as early as possible, but also by the comfort of the child, and by its own convenience too.

For every success, the son needs to be praised, but in the measure, from every campaign to the pot, an event is not necessary. Children can be nervous because of unnecessary attention. Never need to blame the child for failures, just be patient, in time everything will normalize. But you can introduce a promotional moment - for example, after another success, let the baby expect a small delicious surprise. It's great to take a picture for the memory of a kid digging a pot. Photos of such a plan look very touching, especially after several years.