Daring phrases, or how to respond competently to a boor

Faced with rudeness, I always want to answer the offender. In a fit of anger, we often do not control our feelings and emotions. This can cause a number of negative consequences. The simplest outcome is a quarrel, and the most negative outcome is a fight. But, you must agree, to suffer yourself and be humiliated to assault by just because your interlocutor is in a bad mood - at least stupid.

The most correct in this situation is to answer the offender calmly and confidently, but in such a way as to put the boor back in place. To do this tactfully, without spending extra energy and energy, there are special preparations - daring phrases.

Who is the boor?

This is an aggressor attacking and violating your personal boundaries. He tries to hurt the most painful places and at the same time avoid revenge. Scientific evidence indicates that such a person is, in fact, a miserable person with a low self-esteem, who wants to assert himself at the expense of offended or ridiculed by him. That's what you need to know when confronted with a boor. To understand and forgive, or even regret an insignificant person, or respond with a witty phrase, good-natured (not sarcastically!) Smiling.

Examples of situations where anger can not be contained

A decent-looking person who is a boor, you can meet today at every step. Often the most common places of his dislocation are the following:

1. Trading platforms. The favorite place of a bored, evil-minded person is, of course, a market or a supermarket. In some cases, a pharmacy is popular. Firstly, you can go there as an excursion and povozmustvatsya plenty, studying prices on the shelves. Secondly, to shove in the crowd - for them, too, is a sweet thing. And all this, of course, is accompanied by unpleasant comments to passers-by. By the way, shop sellers also like to be rude.

2. Public transport. A favorite place for all the boors is the crowd. And where else can you so enjoy indignation, as in the crush of transport at rush hour? There you pushed, here - you. And as a result, for example, we have an excitedly screaming woman who splashes her anger at everyone who tries to argue with her. And God forbid you to outdo her in this honed skill.

3. Polyclinic. State institution, where it is necessary to defend the queue, also knows daring people. It can be an insolent, who will try to slip without waiting. But then he will get a good verbal abuse from people waiting in line, among whom also crooks can hide.

4. Places of study. Adolescence is famous for its "painful" growing up of children. How is it shown? Cheeky phrases addressed to teachers, wrangling in class at school, lyceums. Teenagers can not give an objective assessment of what is happening. They think that they already know everything, and adults are a little behind them. Unfortunately, rudeness and insolent phrases in the lessons of high school students - quite commonplace circumstance. The teacher can put the pupil in place, having won authority in his eyes, or ignore the fact that it will "outgrow" by itself.

Daring phrases and expressions: examples

• And the truth is that we are all interested in discussing topics that do not concern us at all.
• From a man who is difficult to cheer, good is not to wait.
• I know that the rascals are making progress, but not because of their own minds, as they believe, but because of the gullible people alongside. And to lie, just do not need to mind. To work honestly - this is skill.
• It's awfully awkward for you to say this, but I'm not at all interested in how I look in your eyes, forgive me. In my own I look fine, and that's enough.

• What level of development, such and interests.
• You are so low in communication that, frankly speaking, you are not even visible on the horizon.
• Please continue. When you say such things, I feel so smart.
• Forgive me, but you have a bad amber in your mouth.
• Can you bring a drum?
• With such tirades only in the corner and stand.
• If you get angry, then you yourself know that you are wrong.
• In this case, your emotions are not identified with the conclusions of your thinking.
• If you do not like me, I'm allowed to go underground.

Daring phrases for girls

If the girl does not want to communicate with the guy, but can not get rid of his pesky, or vice versa - struggling with his rudeness, perhaps she should apply some phrases.

For example:

• The time of your stay in my life is over. Pass the pass and exit.
• If you love me, it's your mistake, all you can achieve is my smile.
• Darling, you're right - people like you, never been, no more and no need.
• What should - I know, is spelled out in the Constitution. The rest - as I want.
• I have excellent business, so there is nothing to please you.
• It's not you did the movie "Clowns"?
• I'm not choosy, I just need the best.

What about guys?

Not only do girls suffer from annoying boors. Let's look at the daring phrases for the guys. These statements they can use in response to the rudeness of their peers:

• You're not so beautiful that I'm rude.
• If you say this, then, most likely, you have a spare jaw in your pocket.
• Kiss me with running start, I'm behind the tree.
• Maybe you are the most beautiful girl in our area, but I'm interested in communicating with smart people too.

So, the first foundation is laid. Now you know how you can respond to rudeness. But in no case do not parry these statements to an innocent person. And then in the role of a boor you will be just you.