Advice to the guys: what to do if the girl threw?

In relations there are crises, without quarrels any union does not manage. And that these partings in a fit of emotions do not lead to a complete break in the relationship, it is necessary to have a clear idea of what to do if the girl threw it.

The very first thing you need to find out is whether you have a chance to restore the relationship. This tells you both the cause of the quarrel and the nature of the girl: if she is extremely expressive, then the gap has occurred in a fit of feelings, yet her love and warmth are preserved. Perhaps you are guilty of something, then the chances are great enough. If the reason for parting is that she has cooled to you or loved another, then most likely you will have to accept it.

Before deciding what to do, you need to find out the reasons why girls drop guys :

• lack of attention;
• Treason (from your side or her);
• jealousy;
• Misconduct;
• The girl fell in love with another;
• Lack of diversity in relationships and so on.

So, did this happen? Here are some recommendations of what to do if the girl threw:

• Surprise her. Arrange an unforgettable evening. Wait at the house with a large bouquet of color, bring her somewhere, try to cheer and remind you how good it was together.
• Calm down. You can not panic and harass yourself with the question of what to do. If the girl threw it, this is not the end, the meaning of life is not lost, and it continues with the lady or without her.
• Talk to her. Conversations have never harmed, on the contrary, if you have accumulated a lot of misunderstandings and claims to each other, it will be extremely useful to discuss this. All problems are solved, and it is likely that your case is no exception.
• Do you need this? For example, if a girl threw the guy is not the first time, then do you need to constantly invent something and break up to get everything back? In this case, it's easier to throw it out of your head and forget about everything that reminds you of it.

What if the girl left because she found another?

Of course, forget. Since she betrayed you once, no matter how sad, she will be able to repeat this "crime" again. Now the task is how to forget it. Here are some tips.

1. Remember what you did before this relationship. Walked with friends, went in for sports, played in a musical group or something else? Use this as an excuse to return to previous activities or find a new hobby.
2. You can not fall into despair, worse - start drinking alcohol and rush "all the hard." Distract to something else.
3. Do yourself, improve. Think about how to become better, so she later regretted losing you.
4. Can not you forget it, because it reminds you of her? All photos and gifts received from her, take away far away, so that they do not come across. Less communicate with her friends and relatives.
5. Try to start a relationship with another girl, but not out of revenge, otherwise you will make another person unhappy.

Now you know what to do if the girl threw it. Do not fall into apathy and remember that true love comes with the years, and it needs to wait. The girl you need will love you for who you are, and all the minor flaws will go to the background.