Signs of a weak man

The current trend is that weak men are more common than brave knights. Women have only two ways out - to help the dreamy prince to become a macho or to become strong himself.

How to recognize a weak man

Any girl dreams of meeting a strong and determined partner in life who will save her from problems and worries, and not create new difficulties. Knowing this tendency, weak men have learned to camouflage, and therefore their true essence can not open immediately. In order not to fall into the trap, you need to remember such signs of male weakness:

• Indecision. This is manifested even in small things. For example, in a cafe he can study the menu for a long time, long hesitant to stop at a particular dish or drink.
• Inability to maintain a conversation. If in a dialogue with a man you have to constantly look for a way out of awkward pauses, you should be alert.
• Lack of career ambitions. Weak men often do not work where they pay well, but where there is a quiet and minimal level of responsibility.
• Delayed reaction. A man does not know how to make decisions quickly, not only in stressful situations, but also in ordinary everyday situations.
• Has bad habits. Most men with a weak character have a predilection for cigarettes and alcoholic beverages.
• Do not hurry to legalize relations. Suggestions of the hand and heart from such a man can be achieved only after a series of persistent hints.

A few more distinctive features

Armed with some knowledge, you can easily determine that next to you a weak man. The symptoms are as follows:

• It is characterized by sacrifice. A man tries to please everyone (or can not refuse to fulfill other people's requests). Usually this is done for the general approval.
• He does not like changes and conflicts. And this also applies to positive changes in life. A weak person likes to be in the "comfort zone", even if it is not characterized by the most favorable conditions.
• Suppresses your emotions and feelings. Weak people are afraid to show their mental state. All the joys and troubles they prefer to experience within themselves.
• They love women's society. In a men's company, where all the successful and ambitious, such people are difficult. But with the ladies they quickly establish friendly relations.

Classification

Are men weak? As practice shows, yes. Nevertheless, not all of them are the same. We can distinguish such types of weak men:

• Sissy. It is a victim of maternal love. Being under the influence of an authoritarian woman, he can not take a single step independently. In addition, it becomes a serious barrier to the construction of their own family.
• Relaxed. This is a person who is incapable or does not want to take responsibility. Weakness is only a mask that allows a person to stay in the comfort zone.
• Indecisive. A person can be successful and active in work and hobbies. But when it comes to women, all courage and determination instantly evaporate.
• Sensitive. This is a creative nature. A man is sensitive to all sorts of experiences. Nevertheless, this does not mean that he is "shabby." Having built a trusting relationship with a woman, a person can open up in a new way.

Why do men become weak?

Whatever it was, a man is born with all the characteristics inherent in him, inherent in a strong sex. To become a weak and spineless person, it is necessary to go a long way, being influenced by the following factors:

• Education. Usually, weak men grow up in families where a mother with a strong authoritative character runs it.
• Problems with the father. If the pope was too scandalous and cruel, the boy, as a rule, does not want to be like him. As a result, with age, a man becomes more and more spineless.
• Mutual relations with friends. Since childhood, being subjected to ridicule and mockery of peers, to a conscious age a man acquires a mass of complexes.

Why are so many weak?

Increasingly, women complain that men have become weak. But in fact, this has its own historical explanation. Here are just some of the factors that psychologists focus on:

• War. The First and Second World Wars took many lives. As a result, the concentration of the male population decreased to 20%. Naturally, many children were left without a hard paternal upbringing. Despite the fact that much time has passed, this left its imprint on today's generation.
• Transition to an industrial society. Previously, boys from childhood were involved in field work, where they took male experience from their grandfathers and fathers. Today this tradition is almost completely exhausted.
• Education from women. Teachers in the kindergarten, teachers in the school, teachers in secondary and higher education ... The vast majority of them are women. Naturally, boys (future men) adopt their model of behavior.
• Feminism. The active struggle of women for their rights proved to be very successful. But not only social activities were actively engaged in the ladies. They taught children to be different from their fathers.

How to Become Strong: Tips for Men

If a weak and strong man competes in some issues, in 99% of cases the winner will be the second. Therefore, representatives of the first category immediately need to change something in themselves. To become strong, you should listen to these recommendations:

• Change your way of life. Start the transformation costs from changes in appearance, daily routine and even diet. Particular attention should be paid to physical stress, which will help develop endurance.
• Learn to make your own decisions. This does not mean that you can not consult with anyone. But do not try to shift responsibility for what is happening to someone.
• Overpower yourself. Defeating your own weaknesses, you will easily resist even the most powerful rivals.

From wimp to loser one step

The weakness of a man extends to all spheres of his life. That's why such people often become real losers. This is manifested in the following characteristics:

• Has a feeling of self-pity. Instead of struggling with failures, a man actively seeks excuses.
• Constantly indicates to the woman "in her place". This is a kind of self-affirmation.
• Inability to handle money. A man does not have the skills to plan his budget. Thus, he spends more than he earns, and constantly turns out to be "in the red."
• He considers life as a game. If you can not play in reality, a person is immersed in a virtual environment.
• He does not know how to part with the past. In particular, a man carefully keeps old and unnecessary things.
• Exaggerates the seriousness of their own ailments. A minor cold or headache turns into a real tragedy for a man.

Weak man - aggressive man

A weak man can be identified not only on the basis of known characteristics, but also by comparison with other representatives of the stronger sex. On the basis of such observations, one and the same conclusion always arises. A weak man is always to blame for a woman. And it may not be any specific person, but a collective image. That is, all the fair sex.

Failures in work? Blame the women who everywhere stick their noses and climb into men's professions. Do not have a personal relationship? Again, faults are on women who have become corrupt and unfaithful. Even if a man stumbles or breaks a cup, the wine will be on women. And if such a man has a spouse, she risks becoming an object of aggression. Slabaki often self-affirm by suppressing their partner in life. Often there are cases of assault.

Is there a chance for personal happiness?

If a weak man, what to do about this problem? Is there a chance to find personal happiness? Yes, if you find a suitable woman who has a "mommy" type. Her parents' instincts extend not only to children. Such a woman feels an inner need to take care of everyone and everything. Naturally, courting and pitying his weak man will be for her not a torment, but a real pleasure and an opportunity to realize his life purpose. The result is a harmonious and warm relationship within the family.

Infantilism and weakness are not the same thing

Men are much more likely to be infantile than women. No wonder they say that they remain small children for a lifetime (even in extreme old age). For this type of people are characterized by the following features:

• Modesty and shyness, inability or unwillingness to engage in serious business;
• Taciturnity or inability to express their thoughts (and this manifests itself only in a public setting, not in the circle of friends);
• Propensity to foolishness (non-serious behavior can be traced both in an informal and in a business environment);
• Inability to behave seriously in a relationship with the opposite sex (which often irritates girls).

Of course, infants are weak. But this is not the rule. Often men who behave like children can muster their will into a fist and take a willful decision when circumstances so require.

Conclusion

Is there a future for a weak man? The first option is to link your destiny with a woman with a pronounced maternal instinct. This will become a pledge of personal happiness, but as for the business sphere, there can be no question of any success. Family idyll will consist in complaining to the spouse and receiving from her the necessary dose of sympathy. Certainly, someone will arrange this situation and become a kind of "comfort zone" and a guarantee of stability. But, unfortunately, weak men are rarely happy. To succeed in women and achieve the top in the work, it is necessary to work on themselves, eradicating "feminine" qualities.