Sexual relations outside marriage. When the third is not superfluous

Going under the aisle, the couple swear to remain faithful to each other. The Christian religion is very categorical, including adultery for mortal sins. However, the forbidden fruit is even sweeter. There are few men who did not betray their spouses at least once. However, if you recall how many anecdotes are devoted to the situation "the husband comes back from a business trip ...", it immediately becomes clear that the ladies are not inferior to them in this.

Unfortunately, to many couples faithfulness seems to be a burden absolutely unbearable. "Life is too long to be limited to only one love," one of the great ones remarked very accurately. Let's try today to look at betrayal from an optimistic point of view and look for positive aspects in this situation.

Strange as it sounds, there are pluses even here. Experienced ladies' jokes joke that a good "leftist" strengthens marriage. With respect to the representatives of the stronger sex, this is 100% true. Men rarely confuse sex and relationships. They do not interfere with the love of a woman and passionately want her friend. Moreover, the satisfaction of desires on the side often gives new colors to their lives with a constant partner.

I note that this is not about promiscuous sexual relations, almost in front of the second half. (In this case, there is disrespect and a disrespectful attitude towards a close person). However, treason can take place, for example, on vacation. About such an affair the wife is unlikely to be informed, which means that her pride will not suffer in any way. A strong half will gain additional confidence in its irresistibility and masculinity.

Men, for whom sexual relations on the side serve as a kind of doping, is not so little. And, strangely enough, to live until the golden wedding with a woman they are helped by treason.

Now let's talk about another situation, which is by no means a rarity. Spouses over the years have built a cozy nest, got used to each other. They are comfortable living in the same territory, but both believe that sex in the relationship of husband and wife does not play a special role. You will be surprised, but there are a lot of such families (I personally know, at least, four pairs). In this case, the spouses can even agree that they satisfy their needs on the side. You can argue that marriage without love has no right to exist, and you will be wrong. Any model of a relationship is good if it makes both happy.

Psychologists believe that for a woman, sexual relations on the side are much more dangerous than for men. It's hard to argue with the fact that ladies are emotional beings and live by feelings. But many modern women do not see anything bad in sex for the sake of satisfaction. There is no question of any love or affection here. However, interest from the opposite sex for the lady is always an incentive for self-improvement. Moreover, the woman's confidence in her own attractiveness always makes the sexual relations in the couple more vivid.

In conclusion, I would like to touch on the following topic: sexual relations on the side as revenge for the betrayal of a partner. Once in a difficult life situation, many people do not know what to do. On the one hand, to destroy the family because of the campaign of the second half "left" do not want to. On the other hand, there is no strength to forgive. Often knowledgeable people advise to answer the husband or wife the same, and the issue will be resolved immediately.

Of course, this method does not help everyone. Here much depends on the nature of the offended party. But people who believe that cheating a partner gives them the right to go "to the left" is also not a small one. In this case, the spouses, after exchanging "courtesies", continue to live together, as if nothing had happened. Moreover, putting themselves in the place of another person, they begin to better understand the motives of his behavior. But do not forget that the "matter of revenge" should remain purely personal. Share this secret with someone should not.