What should not be placed on social networks during the New Year holidays?

New Year's holidays are a season of joy that you need to share with others. However, not everything that happens in your life during the holidays should be viewed by the general public. Here are a few things that you should not share with your subscribers.

A gift that you did not like

Christmas and New Year are holidays, when it makes sense to be grateful for all the good things that surround you, and for people who care about you. Even if someone gave you a not particularly welcome gift, you should not mention this in social networks. Even without naming names and not specifying exactly which it was a gift, you only sow negative, when, on the contrary, they could give joy.

Description of all gifts that you received or gave

Even if you liked them very much, you are no longer a child to tell everyone about a cool new toy that Santa Claus brought to you. This behavior is forgivable for children, but adults need to remember more important things that need to be rejoiced. Material values go out of fashion, lose value and appearance, but what is really important - family, friends, work, happiness, health, peace - these are the gifts that are really important and worth sincere gratitude.

In addition, there is a more practical reason for not telling the world about expensive gifts. During the New Year holidays, the level of robbery increases significantly. Do not tempt uninvited guests with photos of new technology, car or jewelry.

Quarrels with close people

Even minor disagreements with a husband or wife, of which a lot accumulates during the preparation for festive dinners, are not worth it to overshadow their page in the network. After all, after the last blow of the chimes, you will surely forget that he did not buy all the products from the list, and she, by her fees, forced you to be late for an hour to visit your parents. All this is a trifle compared to the fact that you lived side by side for another year.

In addition, the post about a quarrel on the eve of the holiday can upset people close to you. Instead of rejoicing, they will experience and try to support you.

Dramatic family disassembly

If you are going to meet with your family on New Year's Eve, including all your aunts, uncles and other relatives up to the fifth tribe, naturally, a couple of unpleasant themes, memories and old grievances will emerge. Skeletons in the closet are in every family, as well as black sheep. However, it is worth remembering that social networks are not a place for clarifying family relations. In addition, you present to the worldly court not only your own secrets, but also the secrets of other people, which they might want to hide from the ubiquitous sticky web of the Internet.

Do not forget that almost all members of your family are likely to be subscribed to your page, and an unflattering post will only aggravate the situation even more. Try not to produce gossip and negativity, still a holiday in the yard.

Political Views

Whichever theory you believe, whoever you vote for, whatever party you belong to, leave it all outside your festive page. You have a whole year ahead, and not one to defend your only correct opinion. During the main holidays, dedicate your thoughts to close people and good deeds. New Year holidays are a peaceful time, when conflicts and disputes are best avoided. They are already too many year round, you can make a short pause.

Photos of strangers

It is not necessary without permission to exhibit photos, which are clearly visible to other people, especially unfamiliar. This rule is difficult to maintain in the century when you are used to sharing everything online, from self to bed with a cup of coffee, to a meal eaten for lunch in a cafe. However, it is important to remember that without permission you have the right to display for public review only your own photos, and not made by you, but with the image of you and only you. For everything else, you need at least an oral permission from the persons present in the picture. In our time there are still people who prefer not to show off their personal lives, and this decision must be respected.

Comments belittling other religions

Remember that the Internet belongs to everyone. Many of the people signed to your page may be celebrating very different dates and events. This does not mean that if you wish you a happy Chanukah or the Nativity of Christ, a person tries to convert you into his faith. Most likely, he simply shares his joy in the most usual way. Accept with gratitude all the congratulations, because they say that people remember about you in a festive moment, no matter what exactly this moment means. If the congratulation does not have obvious moralizing and attempts to persuade you to change your mind about faith, do not leave negative comments, it's better just to thank.

The material that incriminates you or your colleagues in front of the chef

Try to keep a secret of everything that you are not ready to show personally to your boss. Do not forget that monitoring your activity in social networks is increasingly a favorite occupation of the chiefs or the personnel department.

Even if you have a strict profile protection and share your information exclusively with friends, do not forget that friends of friends can sometimes see what is happening on your page and, accordingly, in your life. Try not to put yourself in a negative light, not only for the sake of the boss's good opinion, but also for his own dignity.

Flow of monotone selfies

We live in a world of individual images, and those for which you only need to interact with the camera, and not with the surrounding people. Many psychologists are advised to share group photos more. Especially this advice is suitable for the New Year holidays season. Photos with family and friends not only show the whole world that you appreciate communication and your loved ones, but also make you feel the atmosphere of a holiday - a time when you do not need to do everything alone.

Despite the fact that dependence on perfectly placed pictures of one's own "I" in beautiful and fashionable clothes, surrounded by beautiful food, stylish decor, interesting places and other scenery does not even think of diminishing, let yourself not go on about this unhealthy tendency. Switch to more interesting and important things. In addition, a shot of a well-spent evening at the company of close people will be beneficial to look at the background of individual photos.

Constant updates and statuses

A few years ago it was impolite to be distracted from a joint dinner for a message sent by mobile phone, not to mention leaving the device on the table, next to a glass of champagne. Today, few participants of the feast are not distracted by constant checking of the pages and updating of the statuses. Do not forget that the social network will not replace your real life. Try to completely devote yourself to the fact that in these holidays you are surrounded by people who love you, worry about you and wish you all the best.

In addition, remember that the personal page on the social network is part of your resume and perfectly reflects your values, preferences and relationships with surrounding people.