The role of the bridesmaid

The wedding is a solemn and exciting event for lovers, although not only they worry and are going through this day. Loving parents often on the wedding day of their children can utter a tear, and faithful and reliable friends sincerely rejoice, have fun and relax. In addition, perhaps, honorable witnesses, which on this day is clearly not up to rest, because they are also puzzled by many troubles.

The very concept of "bridesmaids" came to us from the West, and if you think about it, it is very true. For the Slavic people it is more common to hear - a witness. Although, if you look at the roots, it is worth noting that, according to Russian traditions, in the old days there were several witness-assistants at the wedding, and not one by each side.

Now it is very fashionable to adopt Western traditions in organizing a wedding ceremony, so at this celebration you can often meet a whole suite of young people, where the bridesmaids are dressed in identical dresses, and on the part of the groom there are exactly as many best men.

Still it is worth noting that, no matter how the second most important after the bride girl at the wedding, responsibilities and responsibilities on it from this will not be less. So let's try to outline what are the main duties of the bridesmaids.

First of all, it is considered that the witness should help the bride with a choice of the wedding image, starting from the dress and ending with the hairdresser and make-up artist for the bride. A faithful friend will certainly advise from the side the best option, and also more thoughtfully will consider all the details that the excited bride can overlook.

Some believe that the wedding should be invited by the newlyweds themselves, and some say that this question should be taken by witnesses who have received only a guest list from the young. In any case, they simply have to offer their help.

The bride's maidens should take an active part in the bride's ransom, and also discuss with the toastmaster the scenario of the groom's arrival and the meeting of the guests. By the way, it is best to inform the groomsmen of the groom to avoid absurd and embarrassing situations, as well as the delay of the whole action, so as not to be late in the registry office.

Another important point is a bachelorette party. Yes, this holiday should be entirely on the conscience of the bridesmaids, because this evening the bride says goodbye to her former girl's life. And who, if not the best friend, knows what the future wife would want this evening?

At the wedding, the witness must keep an eye on the bride and her dress (if it is long, help the young sit at the table and in the car), always be close.

Perhaps the duties of a friend may be changed somewhat, depending on the wishes of the young and the very scenario of the celebration, which must be stipulated in advance.

On the day of the wedding, it is the witness who must come first to the bride's house to help her get dressed, and also to meet the groom and best men for the ransom ceremony first. In the future, she should monitor the time and check that young people get on time in the registry office and the church, if they decide to get married.

As for the bridesmaid's attire at the wedding, it is necessary to remember a few simple rules. The witness should not be in a white dress, because this is the privilege of the bride; In any case should not look defiant - it's still a holiday of love and tenderness. Dress friends should be in harmony with the attire of the bride, this will make beautiful wedding photos.

It is always necessary to remember that the main task of the friends at the wedding is to do everything to make the celebration fun and unforgettable. Turn this important day for your best friend into a fairy tale and protect her from worries and unnecessary excitement - this is the role of an honorary witness at the wedding.