The boomerang rule: a concept, examples from life

All sooner or later returns. For good deeds there will be a reward, and for bad deeds - punishment. Of course, many people are confident that they will get away with everything, but the law of the boomerang acted, acts and will act. Everything comes back: thoughts, actions, words.

What it is?

In simple terms, the law of the boomerang is an indestructible rule, according to which a person always receives what he deserves. His good deeds, thoughts, good desires or negative - all will return by all means a hundredfold. For example, if you take into account all world religions, it becomes obvious that the rule of boomerang operated long before the emergence of modern man. And our ancestors prudently recorded in religious postulates. The main book of Christianity - the Bible - teaches a man to do to people as he would have liked to have done to him.

What do scientists say?

In scientific circles, the boomerang rule has been studied for quite a long period of time. However, scientists still can not come to an unequivocal decision. Presumably it is considered that the law of boomerang is the influence of the subconscious. A person who radiates a negative, subconsciously, may experience a feeling of shame or remorse. Perhaps, he can not realize this, but emotions do not disappear anywhere and affect life. This could be a good explanation, but only, according to the results of studies, only 34% of cases have subconscious experiences. Therefore, science can not reliably say how the boomerang rule works. It just is, and there's nothing to be done about it.

Religious aspects

As you know, every world religion has its own rules and regulations. However, there are 7 indestructible postulates that are present in every denomination. And among them there is always a point that evil returns. Of course, in every religion this sounds different, but the main meaning is still preserved. The boomerang rule works, and every religious denomination tries to convey this message to its parishioners. For example, Buddhists believe in reincarnation, that is, the rebirth of a person after death. They tend to believe that all the actions from this life will affect the future fate. Although this is called karma, the meaning is the same.

Can the law not work?

The boomerang rule is a set of causal situations and their consequences. This is a manifestation of karmic influence, according to which one acts in the same way as he did at one time. However, people do not always believe in this because they do not see the rapid implementation of this law.

Take, for example, the usual life situation: the husband throws his wife and children. They have no means of subsistence, so the mother sells the apartment and moves to her parents, gets a job, tries to put children on her feet and barely makes ends meet. Her ex-husband, meanwhile, does not deny himself anything, he has a new mistress, a successful business and a new trip abroad every weekend. After many years the situation does not change: the woman is still trying to survive, and the former lover does not need anything.

This occurs often enough, and one has to doubt that the boomerang rule in life takes place. But this law always works, all the salt is that some time must pass between the action and the investigation. And from time to time this gap can drag on for several years, so people lose cause and effect relationship.

Very often you can meet a person who always helps everyone, but in his life not everything is as it should be. All his endeavors are doomed to failure, but such a person does not give up and is not angry in vain. And then one day, after 5-7 years (or all 10), in his life comes a white band. All his ideas are carried out, as if by magic. From the outside, it may seem that he is simply incredibly lucky, but in reality this is all a price for the good that he previously made to people. Therefore, the boomerang rule always works.

In captivity of thoughts

Paying comes not only for deeds, but for thoughts. Thought is material, and this is a fact. There is even a good proverb: "Before thinking - think." A very good statement, especially if one takes into account that many people have never encountered the notion of "hygiene of thoughts". Constant discouragement, a negative attitude towards the world are poisoning the life of every person, these emotions also fall under the boomerang rule. "Do not be angry with others, and do not be angry yourself" - it is on this principle that one should act in society so as not to get a good "slap" from the universe.

If a person is constantly worried about something, dissatisfied with something or something, then sooner or later all of his fears will become reality. Yes, there is always a place for experience in life, but you should not put them in the status of obsessions.

Sweet revenge

If someone has offended someone, you do not need to conceal anger or try to take revenge. It is better just to wish all the best and move on. Of course, sometimes it is difficult to erase from life that which caused pain, but if you dwell on this moment, you can skip your happiness. And revenge is also not the best way out. Even if we assume that the "retaliatory strike" strategy has been successfully implemented, a person will not be able to say for certain that in the future he will not make such a mistake, and he will not be exacted this way.

Let's say there is a situation: the girl got a job as a secretary. She had to become her boss's mistress, since she did not want to lose her job. Her boss - a family man, and he has a very strict wife, but the man does not stop from the adventures "left." After some time, the girl comes to her boss to sign documents on her departure to the decree. The man could not reconcile himself to the fact that the subordinate had relations on the side, and decided to dismiss her without severance pay. The girl threatened to tell her everything to his wife. The chief began to beg not to destroy the family. Although the future mother was offended by this attitude, but she did not resort to extreme measures, she was still fired. A few years later this girl became not only a happy wife and mother, but also a successful entrepreneur. Once she met her former boss. He had a bad time in his life, and he threatened her that she would tell the press that in the past the current respected businesswoman had a relationship with her own boss. The woman begged him not to ruin her life, and he disappeared. Like her in his time, the man said nothing.

This is a great example of how the boomerang law can work in relations between people. In addition, everything could not have been so successful if the girl in her time had avenged her boss. Yes, he would have got into an unpleasant situation, but how would her life have turned out then ?!

Return

Life itself knows who and how to punish. And a person should not think that if he stole something, then he will lose a valuable thing. The consequences of actions are never equal to the amount of damage done. Return is always much stronger than the damage done. For example, if a person has insulted someone, then he can get into an accident. If someone strikes, then they can steal something from him, or a fire may occur in the house. What a person values most, always becomes an object on which the boomerang rule will first of all act.

How to live happily?

This is not a horror story for the night, but a real story called "The Law of Boomerang in Life." Psychology studies this aspect in every possible way, and its advanced specialists have been racking their brains over how not to get "handed out" for several years. And today there are several effective methods:

• Down with the gossip. You can not gossip about others, even if a person tells a true story about the bad deed of another, this will undoubtedly leave its negative imprint.
• Do not be angry and do not curse. No matter how strong anger is on someone, you can not be angry with him and wish for something bad. Otherwise, part of the curses will have to be shared with the offender.
• Do not go "on your heads." It does not matter what bright prospects loom on the horizon, you can not neglect people who are near. Other people's tears always come back.
• Do not be jealous. Someone else's success should be a push to achieve one's own goals, and not a source of anger and resentment. It should be remembered that the negative always attracts the negative.
• To give good. Let it be meaningless little things, but eventually the good will always come back.

The boomerang effect has many names: someone says that this is karma, someone is sure that these are the principles of the universe or the laws of the universe. But no one refutes the fact that all human actions and thoughts come back. It can be concluded that each person has his own happiness in his hands, and only depends on his actions, it will break or multiply.