Four ages of love, or Love in adulthood

On Valentine's day, congratulations on the day of all lovers (and on other days) are not just for young people, but also for those who were captured by love in adulthood. They can love no less passionately than the young, and maybe even more than when they were young. If this sounds like a statement, you can think that this is so. Cinema and television rarely depict elderly couples in the throes of passion. But when this happens, why do you think they are doing so well? The years of practice are affected.

Love, old age and cinematography

In our cinema only the film "Moscow does not believe in tears" V. Menshova can claim a real history of human relations of people in adulthood. Abroad, classic love stories (such as "Gone with the Wind") still stand in the first positions in all ratings and polls.

The film by Sergei Mokritsky "Four ages of love", released in 2010, shows the relationship between mature and elderly people. But the film is shot with a cold heart, an art house movie crawls out of all the cracks and makes it look detached, the truth of life in the same cracks and disappears.

In other respects, what we see daily on the body and on the screens is testosterone, which is beating with a fountain, and it's not bad, just a little like what happens in real life.

Four ages of love

Daily life, endowing us with experience, gradually changes us, sometimes doing it so quickly that we do not have time to notice how four ages of love pass. Youth flies swiftly, leaving a first scar on the heart, a categorical youth with its motto: "All or nothing!" There comes a cautious maturity, and then old age very quietly and stealthily creeps up in soft slippers. We can not return the young years, it is not worth it and wish. There is no way to change anything, there are only memories or regrets about what was or should have been. The past led us to the present, to the fruits that we use: help, care and love.  

In sum, few women can share a happy family life experience. It often happens that all four ages of love do not bring positive results and the experience of communicating with the opposite sex does not become a success in life. The stormy history of human relations can be interesting, but sometimes leads to fruitless attempts to organize your personal life. For many years you can wait for your Rett Butler, but where is the guarantee that he will come to at least one of the same parties where you will be. Searches can continue until you understand that everyone (even the sexiest of us) comes into love relationships with his life baggage.

In the declining years, the romance does not go away, it simply narrows the horizon, looking at life really. Remembering the path traveled, its four ages of love, you realize that every time you love, you lose a part of yourself by acquiring something from another person. It is almost the same as the tail of a lizard, which grows anew. It's about the soul. Every love experience teaches us, revealing new facets and shades of love until we learn the lesson and discover this new in ourselves.

Love is not on the ruins of life, but at a high level

We need a certain courage to open ourselves to meet a new feeling, it makes us vulnerable, we must trust another person, let him into our world and home. Especially if love comes in old age. No one can guarantee happiness and a better life. We are guests in this life, we can only strive to live our time as fully and happily as possible.

When you inhale the smell of roses or get them as a gift, do not forget that they have thorns, and looking at the young, do not forget how many years you needed to learn to love and enjoy life. Look at the world with young eyes as long as possible. You can not look younger, but you can enjoy life together with a partner and be content with living together.