3 names that can not be called children. How can you not call a child, so as not to spoil his fate

Everyone knows the saying: "As you call the ship, so it will float." And this is not a common expression, but centuries-old observations and experience of our great-grandfathers. The same applies to children. From what name will be given to the kid, much depends in his life. In this article I want to consider 3 names, which can not be called children, and also tell how to choose the right name for your child.

About interdictions

First of all I want to say that today the care for choosing a name for one's own child lies solely with the parents. In the domestic legislation there are no prohibitions. And so the relatives of the newborn can choose even those names that are unusual for hearing around. Moreover, today parents try to pick up to their child the most rare and unusual name, wishing thereby an interesting and extraordinary destiny for their child. But if the legislation does not contain any prohibitions on this account, the church has its own opinion on this matter.

Prohibition 1. Divine Names

Considering 3 names, which can not be called children, first of all I want to say that children are not recommended to be called divine names. And this applies not only to the Muslim religion, where it is strictly forbidden, but also the Orthodox church canons. So, father never calls a baby whose name is Jesus or God. This is considered the highest blasphemy. It is unlikely that a child will be able to repeat the fate of the great teacher and prophet Jesus Christ. In addition, no one knows who this baby will be in the future. In childhood, it can be a small schoolboy, but at an older age and generally a criminal element.

Prohibition 2. Devil's names

We define further 3 names, which can not be called children. So, the clergymen will also never surround the baby, whose name is Demon, Lucifer, Devil, etc. After all, the name already outlines the way of crumbs in this world. And in this case, the pious and quiet life of the child just does not shine.

Prohibition 3. Names of negative coloring

We choose 3 more names, which can not be called children. What else can be attributed to such a list? So, do not call your kids names that are clearly negative in color. It is unlikely that a good person will grow up from a child whom his parents will call "The Idiot" or "Maniac" (there are such cases!) This list can be continued indefinitely. As for baptism, the father with such a worldly name will give a new, ecclesiastical, which he chooses at his own discretion.

Close relatives

It should also be said that the choice of a name for a baby should be based on certain principles. In the people there is a lot of "can not", which is still better to adhere to, determined with the naming of his child. So, it is not recommended to call your child the name of a close relative (mother, father, sister or brother, grandparents). It is believed that one person with this name will have to die. You can not name your child's father or mother either because the people say: the child will be disobedient and will not find a common language with his native namesake. And the next moment why do not recommend this: grandmothers and folk healers say that if two people with the same name live under the same roof, they will have one guardian angel for two. And this is not good.

Other advice

There are several more "impossible", which should be adhered to if there is a choice of a name for the child:

1. Girls should be given only female names, boys - male. Otherwise, the baby runs the risk of growing man-like, and the guy - weak-willed and fragile. Example: girls should not be called Alexandra, Eugenia, boys should not be given names such as Julius or Valentine.
2. Do not call children according to current events in the country. It was fashionable at one time in the Soviet Union. Therefore, many Olympiads appeared, Dazdraperm and Oktyabrin. The names are at least strange.
3. You can not call the children names of relatives who did not die by their own death or because of serious illnesses. It is believed that the kids "pick" the fate of their ancestors.
4. It is not necessary to name your kids in honor of foreign actors, singers, teleview and other well-known personalities at the moment. Not only that such names are simply unaccustomed to the ear of others, so they often just mismatch with the patronymic and surname (example: Petrova Sher Vladimirovna).

About the meaning of the name: a bit of history

It is very important for parents to know the meaning of the Russian name, which they want to name their baby. After all, as has already been said above, only this can already predetermine the path to your child. I want to say a few words about how our ancestors chose the names for their babies. Ancient Slavic history will be very interesting and entertaining. At that time there were a lot of names and it was possible to choose a name for your kid by any criteria.

1. The children were often called simply in the order of their appearance in the same family: Pervusha, Vtorak and Tretyak.
2. At that time it was possible to call the children names of gods and goddesses - Lada, Yarilo.
3. If they wanted a child of a certain fate, they called him in a special way: The brave will be exactly the defender, and Lubava - the beauty.
4. Well, the most relevant at that time were double names that could fully characterize a person (Bogdan - God given, the Great is a great and wise man).

Today, some names of the Old Slavic world are preserved. And, by the way, still enjoy great popularity. However, such principles of name selection in the modern world, unfortunately, are lost.

Naming conventions

Also I want to say that the choice of a name for a child can be based on certain rules, which are best to adhere to.

1. The name of the baby should be consonant with the surname and patronymic.
2. It is good to choose a name for the child by the date of birth. For this, it is sufficient to make only certain calculations.
3. Also, remember that each name means something. Having decided on what you want to call a child, it is best to read the characteristics of the chosen name to understand if the child wants a similar fate.
4. When choosing a name for your child, you need to think about the simplest things: how to treat a kid with that name will be treated by others. After all, the crumb can be teased even for this reason.

About destiny

Scientists have long proven that name and destiny - these two components of a person's life - are tightly connected by one thread. A lot of work has been written about this and a lot of different statistical data were collected. So, it is believed that Edicy, for example, jokers and jokers. And Inna - excellent housewives and loving wives. However, in doing so, all must still take into account the date of birth of the child, as well as many other factors that affect the fate of a person.

Date of Birth

Numerologists actively advise parents to choose a name for the child by the date of birth. After all, if everything is done right, you can guarantee your child an easy life and an interesting life. And vice versa. In addition, you can also choose a name and according to the time of the year when the baby was born.

1. Winter children. They are already too strict and sullen, so they should choose "easy" names. It will be excellent Alexei, Mikhail and Nina.
2. Spring children are very difficult to keep in one place, they are restless and always seek somewhere. Such babies will suit the names of Victor, Elena, Julia.
3. Summer guys are often very open minded, vulnerable. Therefore, they need to give more rigid names, which will correct their fate. It is good to call such children Matvey, Arkady or Anna.
4. Autumn crumbs are able to suffer frequent changes in character. Often, these are quite passive personalities, with the following names: Lyudmila, Natalya, Ivan, Dmitry.

First and middle name

It is also important not only the significance of the Russian name, but also the extent to which it is combined and patronymic. And not only by consonance. Here, for example, the name Nikolai is perfectly combined with the patronymic Vladimirovich. However, Nikolai Igorevich will be quite a tough man, with whom it will be difficult to agree. Not very good names as a patronymic: Dmitry, Semyon, Konstantin. Excellent - Vladimir, Michael, Peter, Paul.

World practice

The fact that the meaning of the name and destiny of a person are closely connected, knows a lot of people in all countries of the world. Particularly scrupulous in this matter are the inhabitants of developed countries. So, there parents can forbid to call the child a certain name, if it can offend the baby in the future. So, the rating of banned names in different countries of our planet:

1. New Zealand. There it is forbidden to call babies names that can offend them. Example: Talula, Hot Fruit.
2. Italy . The court of this country forbade parents to name the baby by the name of Venerdi, which translates as "Friday". There was also a ban on the feminine name of Andrea, since it is exclusively male in this country (and can cause confusion in the social life of many citizens).
3. In Sweden, before registering a child in state bodies, you need to obtain permission from the tax authority for this.
4. In Norway , names that mean abuse, illness or sexual terms are officially banned.
5. In Malaysia , those names that are contrary to religious traditions are forbidden.
6. In China, the police must either approve or ban the name. This body is endowed with such authority, because it issues ID cards.
7. In Germany, there is a special department responsible for the names of children living in the country. For example, there was a ban on the name of Miatt (authorities felt that there would be a problem with determining a person's sex in absentia).
8. In Denmark, in general, there is a special state list of 7,000 names. You can not reject him when you choose a name for your parents.
9. In Portugal, they did not understand what the name of the child Ovnis means (in the UFO translation), so he was banned. In general, in this country, before choosing a name, one should familiarize oneself with a special treatise, which will tell how you can refer to a baby.
10. In Japan , the name of the child can be made up of the allowed 2232 characters ("kanji names").