Testing a wedding or what is pre-wedding stress

A wedding is a big celebration in the life of every bride and groom. Many months are preparing for the wedding, sometimes preparation takes more than a year. This event is remembered for a lifetime, but not always accompanied by only pleasant memories. Preparation for such a responsible event often turns into a great stress for the newlyweds. How to survive the uneasy test of a wedding, having received from a long-awaited holiday only bright and pleasant emotions?

Young brides who dream of the perfect beautiful wedding usually cause serious stress organizing celebrations: choosing a fairy dress, choosing a chic limousine, making a menu in a restaurant, searching for a photographer and a toastmaster. If you are trying to organize the whole holiday on your own without recourse to professional agencies, the test of the wedding will be quite difficult for you. An untrained person will spend a lot of nerves, searching for adequate leading and inexpensive restaurants. Therefore, if you do not have an absolute need to save money, contact a well-established wedding agency. If additional expenses are extremely undesirable for you, do not fuss. Give yourself a few days to rest from exhausting pre-wedding hassle. And do not worry too much. By and large, it is not so important, there will be a beige dress or "champagne" for you, guests will be served with shish kebab from salmon or lamb. The main thing is that you with your chosen one marry, moving to a new stage of life.

Sometimes you can meet a groom and a bride who do not know how to tell their parents about the wedding, because they are afraid of too active participation on their part in the organization of the celebration. Parents immediately make an unthinkable list of invitees for several hundred people, remembering all their school friends, dispersed to different cities of our glorious country. Call Uncle Yura, inviting him to perform at the wedding with his bayan as a toastmaster. And the worst thing is that you get an antique wedding dress from an old suitcase, in which several generations of your grandmothers married ... Even if the situation with your relatives is not so bad, the interference of parents and grandmothers in organizing your wedding will still be very unpleasant. Try to explain to them that you want to play your wedding according to your ideas. Or organize everything secretly, and then put before the fact.

For most newlyweds, the test of the wedding involves not only pre-wedding training. On the scheduled day, the bride and groom turn out to be in the center of everyone's attention, under firing of toasts and jokes, surrounded by screams "Bitter!" And the songs of drunken guests. The newlyweds do not know how to hold themselves and what to say, they want to hide somewhere and rest together in silence. But there is still a whole wedding dinner ahead ... Invite only the close friends and relatives to the wedding, before which you do not need to "keep a face", who know how to conduct themselves culturally, and who will not complicate your test with a wedding. Tune in for a holiday, not a responsible official report. Drink, dance, have fun - you deserve this wonderful day!

If you understand that in a few days the wedding vow of the groom and the bride will already take place , and your nerves are finally handed over ... Visit the expensive SPA-salon, sign up for a session of your favorite massage, arrange a good day off. First, by this you will improve your appearance before the wedding, which will never be superfluous. Such procedures will favorably affect your skin. And secondly, a little calm down, come to yourself and take a new look at this solemn event. And then this brilliant wedding will be one of the happiest days of your life.