Ideal Wedding Or How to Invite to the Wedding Ceremony of Divorced Parents.

Being a child of divorced parents, you most likely learned how to communicate successfully with both parents despite their divorce, because despite the fact that parents have ceased to be close people to each other - for you they were all early native and important.

This problem can become quite acute when organizing a wedding celebration and provided that most newlyweds have a wedding that is an event that does not happen every day. I would like nothing to mar the wedding ceremony, I want to pose with a bright, carefree smile before the wedding photographer, I want to be present on wedding photos with both parents, I want you to have a perfect wedding.

However, this problem can be disconcerting. It is very terrible when you have to face the choice - when to invite to the wedding ceremony - the mother or father. Especially if the separation of parents was very difficult and one of them left to build new relationships to another person. This situation in most cases is very painful.

The way out in this situation is obvious - the main thing is to be sincere. It is necessary to discuss the situation with both spouses in advance. You can call it a family council. On your part, it will be necessary with all sincerity and warmth, on which you are able to make it clear to your dearest people - father and mother - how the absence of one of them at your wedding ceremony can overshadow the celebration on such an important day for you.

Believe me, that loving parents will go to your meeting even though they have not communicated for years and would not have communicated with each other for another 400 years. The love for you will give them the strength to create a feeling of a complete family, peace, Joy and happiness.

However, it does not hurt to appoint a responsible person who will look after your parents throughout the wedding celebration. It can be both your relative and your very close friend. The main thing is that this person is able to notice in time the growing passions and in time to neutralize the growing conflict.

The only nuance in this case will be the fact that it is better to organize the wedding entirely on your shoulders, but not in any way not on divorced parents, as they may not come to an agreement on any trifling moment in organizing your wedding celebration, which can warm up Passion and increase the chance of conflict.

The day when your wedding ceremony will take place can be a difficult test for your divorced parents. Old memories may come to the surface, as well as the feelings they both experienced at their own wedding. A pain from an unrealized dream may come to the surface. But on the other hand, they will know that by attending your wedding, they are doing the right thing, fulfilling their parental duty, together sending you, their beloved child, on a long journey of independent life.

Love each other and do not forget that close people are always there, no matter what. I sincerely hope that your wedding will be perfect. Sincerely yours, professional photographer Leonid Starikov.