A cynical woman is a norm or a paradox?

Time is a great architect, it is able to reshape people and events. What was shameful yesterday is now the norm, if not the ideal. The image of a refined bitch that goes over the heads and hearts is actively cultivated today by gloss and society. Although in fact, a cynical woman is a nonsense, an anomaly, a paradox.

Lyrical digression

A subtle feminine nature is by nature not created for cynicism, but for caring, love and tenderness. Many feminists can lavish about gender equality, but because women were allowed to drive piles, they were no better off. Against the nature and laws of the universe you can not trample, the man and the woman were initially set up for different tasks, but now someone wanted to try on someone else's burden. As you know, in the neighbor's yard and the water is wet and the sun is brighter. Or maybe not very much wanted to, but somehow they did not give up on time, and it raced.

It's one thing when a cynical girl is not in the state of the soul, but in a fashion. As a dress uncomfortable, but interesting cut. I tried on, flaunted and threw myself on the mezzanine until old age, to remember and let her grandchildren talk about what happened. It's worse when the cynical is from the inside. Because it's pain, it's sadness, it's broken something, so much so that it's upsetting you. As the ancient Chinese said: "The tighter the armor, the more tender that under them." It was substituted, believed, grew ... It does not matter what, it does not matter to whom, but now the woman knows for sure that it's more impossible that way - it's painful and difficult, so she became cynical. It's a protective reaction, nothing more.

Opinion of psychologists

Cynics do not come to this world. These are what life makes us, or we ourselves become similar under its wheels. The most cynical is usually a very soulful and finely organized person, although often she herself does not admit it. It would seem a paradox, is not it? However, if you understand the essence, then everything becomes logical and very understandable. There are such natures who react sharply to injustice, deception, betrayal - that one will pass by, and another through himself.

A woman is cynical - this is undoubtedly a solid character, giving strength to see, but to resist. Often such people cause ambiguous emotions in the environment, they are envious, they are shunned, do not understand or condemn, but by and large they are interesting and uncommon, again due to internal qualities. Pragmatism, implicated in rigidity, true - in the absence of a beautiful cover for lies, indifference - in the common sense. If the mind is alive and sharp, such a man beckons and repels at the same time, remember the same Dr. House. Balance on the verge of sensitivity and undisguised truths. Many people feel it, but it's so indecent to talk. You can think, slyly so, secretly from yourself, but out loud ... The mask, once worn, can grow forever. Also it would be desirable to glance for it. Curiosity, what to do. I want to turn a wolf into a lying dog by the fireplace, so that here it was different with you, really, without games, without guises, without armor. The great Makarenko half-and-half with Maslow lives in the hearts of the majority. And you can put this mask on yourself and look at the world from that side ...