Congratulations on the birth of his daughter to his wife

Recently, I became a father for the third time. My second daughter was born with my wife. They called Katyusha. Our older children Maxim and Sveta are schoolchildren. We have already forgotten all the joy of fussing with the baby, all the worries, anxieties and incomparable happiness when you hold a small miracle in your hands - a piece of yourself. So I wanted again these simple, unpretentious worries, again to feel the joy of every new achievement of a small growing man. The third child became for us a pure desire without an admixture of a sense of necessity.

I remember when this desire arose. My wife returned home from a friend who also recently gave birth to a third child. She went to her to bring her congratulations on the birth of her daughter - toys for the child, little things, a self-made frame for photos (handmade by women is appreciated). Has come, and at the very eyes burn: «As I want the same tiny little-babe!» But has told somehow without hope, it is simple as about an unrealizable dream. And I suddenly thought: "Why not?" This is when two kids ran around the house scared: well, where is the third, and now everything is simpler, more familiar and far from so terrible. And better times - they can wait a long time.

Long (or fast?) 9 months of waiting - and now we met with the daughter. She did not want to offend anyone: she looked a little like her mother, a little bit at her dad, an absolutely charming child. My oral greetings with the birth of my daughter, I brought to my wife in the first minutes of the birth of our child. I kissed her, she smiled wearily. When the child was washed, they gave me a small lump. The tenderness and love that overwhelmed me at this moment are some of the strongest emotions I have experienced in my whole life. Looking at me with her daughter in her arms, the wife confessed that she could not have a better gift than a husband who shared with her all the pain, fear and joy of a child's birth.

In the morning, my wife already received phone greetings from the birth of her daughter from friends and relatives. Visits are prohibited, and nurses will take the flowers or sweets from her: in the ward next to the newborn can not be objects that can cause allergies, and nursing mothers candy or chocolate is not yet. So, think carefully, if you want to come to the hospital and give something like this as a gift. While the young mother is in the hospital, it is better to call or send sms congratulations on the birth of her daughter. A bouquet of flowers to the day of discharge. It's not just advice, it's personal experience. When I was born the first child - a son - I brought to the hospital the most beautiful bouquet that I had found on the flower market. His wife was taken away, and 5 days after discharge, it was pointless to take him back. The second time she asked me not to wear flowers to the hospital.

At that time, when the first two children were born to me, I provided such a holiday statement with a large number of people greeting relatives and friends, an escort of cars, a sea of flowers and gifts, that half a house emptied from the windows to look at this performance. His wife came to the threshold of the hospital with a child, and numerous congratulations were born around the birth of her daughter or son.

However, this time I wanted something more quiet, intimate. Therefore, only the closest people met her. In the hospital, too, something has changed: a video shooting service has appeared. I ordered it, and in a special beautiful room the wife was greeted by a presenter who, on behalf of the maternity hospital, brought us congratulations on the birth of her daughter. We took a picture. Now in our album there are colorful memories of this event. It has already become a tradition that I present my wife with some gift in honor of the birth of a child. When older children were born, I gave jewelry. But this time I decided that a good gift would be a mobile phone with a good camera, based on the Android OS, with a 32 GB memory card. Now she can shoot a child wherever she is, capturing the best and rare moments, listening to music while walking with a child, reading a book or watching a movie, sitting on a bench in the park while her daughter is sleeping.