BDSM-practice: submissive and dominant in sex

Dominant in sex is the partner who is the main. He leads and dominates. The concept came to us from such a sexual current as BDSM. A person who needs domination over him, in this sexual practice is called a submissive.

What is BDSM?

BDSM is a subculture that belongs to the genus of psychosexuals. Here there are erotic authority, games with submission and domination.

The abbreviation BDSM stands for:

• Bondage and discipline;
• Domination and submission;
• Sadism and masochism.

The main principles of BDSM:

• security;
• Reasonableness;
• Voluntariness.

This is reflected in the abbreviation SSC, which is in the slang current:

• Safe;
• Sane;
• Consensual.

In many, BDSM is associated with pain and humiliation, but this is not always the case. For example, fans of databases (bandage and domination) love handcuffs and bindings with ropes, that is, a complete or partial restriction of the partner's mobility dominant in sex.

BDSM also includes role-playing games based on upbringing. For example: the general brings up a recruit girl, a strict teacher punishes the student, the dean wants to expel the student.

CM (sadomasochism) is a practice associated with causing pain. Fans of CM practice the use of hot wax, lashes, objects, shocking, and other things that causes voluptuous agony.

Psychologists argue that the desire to obey has a genetic roots. In ancient times, everyday life was associated with constant dangers. The organism of primitive people has got used to constant allocation of a hormone of stress - adrenaline. Times have changed, and those who have a genetic memory stronger, fill the need through the thrill of sex.

What qualities are required to have a dominant in sex?

Partners can change roles in sexual games. Dominant in sex can be a man, and a sabom is a woman. Then they can change roles. The dominant must have certain qualities.

He can be trusted. Since the submissive completely surrenders to the hands of the master, there must be complete trust between the pair.

Self-confident. A dominant should have a strong sense of self-worth. He knows his own worth, faith in himself must be unshakable. If in the depths of the soul the dominant is actually weak and does not believe in itself, then in time it will begin to assert itself at the expense of the saba, which is very bad. In this case, the dominant will not allow the partner who obeys him to develop.

Wisdom. A person who is trying on a dominant role, should be prepared for the fact that he will have to solve not only his problems, but also the saba. Wisdom is the ability to apply knowledge to solve specific problems.

Self-control. A dominant must have a strong nervous system. If you do not want to be in the role of Saba, disobeying to see hysterics with the beat of utensils and ingratiating whining, then make sure that the partner has a strong inner core. Even worse, if the gentleman has an unstable psyche, and he "accidentally" breaks you several ribs.

Ability to speak and listen . BDSM-practice implies constant communication of partners. Dominant need to listen to the subordinate, so as not to miss the stop words. They are used to stop the lord in time, if something went wrong.

Male domination

Many men in the soul of hunters, they subconsciously look at a woman as a prey. Remember at least how they like to look at girls in heels. Female caviar on his heel is tense, and the leg resembles the fineness of a horse, roe deer, and goat. That is, the animal, on which you can ride and which you can hunt.

Male dominant in sex - this is a very common option, but practice it, like any other version of BDSM, only if both partners agree. After all, submission in sex is a sign of trust and respect. The partner agrees with male superiority, and thus she shows her defenselessness. Submissive is completely given in the hands of the dominant. Male-upper it is incredibly winds, I want to take a woman imperiously, and then press me, warm and fall asleep together.

Female dominant in sex

Domination in sexual relations is not only BDSM practice. Female dominance can be expressed in a more active position, when a lady takes everything in her hands, and a man plays by its rules.

If you like this style of behavior, then talk with your partner. Domination is not always a hard BDSM with a whip in a leather outfit. A female dominant in sex can be dressed in lacy underwear, and instead of handcuffs use silk scarves.

BDSM Statistics

According to statistics, more than 40% of couples in the world practice BDSM. Moreover, they do it regularly. After all, sexual games with the use of handcuffs or just slaps on the pope during sex - this already applies to the practice of BDSM. Causing real physical pain is practiced by no more than 3% of couples. At the same time, 33% of men like it when a woman dominates in sex, 48% of men like to change roles and only 18% like to be upper. Women prefer submission (75%). Only 25% want to be a lady.