How to Quit Married?

How to overcome the first stage of falling in love, and to approach the desired goal - to marry a loved one. Every woman thinks about this. How to attract his attention, like, do not scare away, induce to action, create a stable and long-term relationship? It is the first stage of acquaintance that is important, and it is at this stage that we do not consciously make mistakes and tear up a thin thread of just starting to get in touch with someone who may be our destiny. We just do not think about our words and deeds. And where does it all begin?

Illumination Where without it. For the initial rapprochement with a stranger, sympathy should arise. Books "how to interest a man and get married", written a lot, but here we will talk about something else. It is about how to consolidate the result of the first success and not to frighten the man who drew attention to you and invited you to a date. After all, the outcome of the first meeting can be different. Sometimes it is rather difficult to determine what is next, whether the future is possible for these relations. How to understand, did you like him?

A clue or a sign that a man you made an impression, can serve at first glance, an insignificant detail. And every woman should be able to decipher this correctly, of course, if she can reject the infatuation with herself and the foolish habit of betraying what she wants for the real. Often we do not refuse to notice simple truths, because we are confused, dumbfounded, fascinated.

He liked you, if:

He smiles at you, jokes with pleasure, talks a lot about himself, treats you with pleasure.

- makes timid attempts at courtship, hands, coats, treats ice cream, gives flowers, etc.

- tries to be closer to you (rather, it happens subconsciously), accidentally touches you, takes you by the hand, moves closer.

- the first one starts a conversation about the next meeting, takes the phone number and of course calls.

He did not like him if he:

- he looks away, talks about nothing, and remains silent.

- in his movements, there is a feeling of tension or vice versa, he behaves unleashed, lets go of vulgarity, impropriety in statements, negligence in treatment,
Keeps away from you from a distance.

- not embarrassed, looking at other women,

- Do not listen to what you say, yawns, has a boring appearance. The best way for you is to get up and leave.

- does not take your phone number, does not talk about new appointments, does not call anymore ...

I hope everything is clear! Even at the beginning of dating people want to make a good impression on each other. Therefore, they show themselves only from the best side, this is natural and normal. Perhaps even right. After all, any small mistake, perhaps, will forever alienate you from each other, and you never knew whether you were related souls or not. Just do not be deceived and do not rely on your psychic abilities. It is almost impossible to understand this at first sight.

Most romantics with foam at the mouth will prove the reality of love at first sight. Of course, passion arises when there is an initial impulse. But this is just a passion, the first attraction, falling in love, maybe in the future it will grow into love, and maybe it will blow like smoke. The initial stage of intimacy lasts from several days to several months. Just do not rush. Let everything continue to develop easily and simply, your sympathy for each other should gain stability.

Most women misunderstand the first stage of relationships and begin to consider it a guarantee of long-term relationships and the future of a happy marriage. They already mentally put a stamp in their passport. And then they get depressed, get upset, resentment, when their hopes are revealed only by a house of cards.

Someone is in a hurry on the first date to ask a stupid question: "How much do you plan to have children" or "And you want to live with your parents or with your wife's parents."

A man is in love with you only at the level of physiology (that first impetus forcing a man to take care of you), and whether it is worth starting to load him with other problems. He can not understand them now and just run away. Maybe at the fourth or fifth stage of your rapprochement these issues will be more relevant. Only you to them still go and go.