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How to help a teenager not complex about his body
Parents can not influence the behavior of a teenager during a radical restructuring of the body. This process is irreversible and requires great patience. However, to help children in this difficult period to form a healthy self-esteem is quite realistic.
Girls are most difficult for teenagers
When the girls look at the acquired roundness, it may seem to them that the body began to resemble the moon. That is why in the first years of modeling "adult" proportions, a healthy perception of the new figure is so important. You must help your daughter. Even if in her childhood she had an adequate self-esteem, perhaps now she thinks that everything has got out of control. Your opinion is designed to correct the situation.
Some girls with a change in the body at the time of puberty, in addition to the fact that the hips are rounded and the mammary glands grow, the sides are bulging or the tummy appears. This is a normal situation, and a figure can acquire the desired harmony only by 17-18 years.
Explain to the child that this is a temporary phenomenon
Until full maturity, the adolescent girl will critically evaluate her appearance. She can stand idly by the mirror for hours, examine her stomach, call herself "fatty" and secretly hate these changes.
It is unacceptable to talk aloud about diets
In 2013, the University of Minnesota conducted a study, which revealed the following. Even in families where parents had normal weight indicators, a third of mothers and fathers often discussed with each other the problems of excess weight or diet. It also turned out that adolescent girls are the most sensitive to the opinions of their fathers.
Attitude to offensive nicknames
If within the family you can keep control over conversations, then your daughter is not insured from insulting words from peers. Dismant and disinfect it. Just tell your daughter that she is beautiful, and you will love her, even if she changes beyond recognition.
Limit "Selfie"
Teenagers actively use social networks, where they like to upload their own photos, and are literally infected with a crazy fashion at the "Selfie".
When a child sees television stars
If your daughter focuses on the ideal celebrity body, tell her how hard the work of professional singers or actresses is. Many hours of rehearsals, shooting, tours, flights do not allow even to relax. In fact, the screen stars do not belong to themselves, and for their image and eating habits a whole group of professionals follows. Also explain to the child that the advertisement of the tight-fitting laundry is designed for another age category of women.
Problems of adolescent teenagers
With teenage boys, things are somewhat easier. Changes in their body are not so cardinal and, in fact, the young men have developed immunity to the uncertainty associated with the new appearance. Most boys dream of broad, muscular shoulders. In 2014, the Harvard Medical School conducted a survey, which showed that some boys agree to be overweight, just to not seem too thin.
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